lesliemarie
Cathlete
I really could use some insight from everyone. Me and my mother have a more of a hate relationship, I love her for giving me my life but for love as a mother and daughter is really not there. She has been very abusive to me as a child. Now that she lives in Arizona and I am in Utah I thought that our relationship would improve. But lately since my brother whom is 30 something years old and can't take care of himself lives with my parents. My father has told me they are real close (Mother and brother) Anyway lately when I call her she has been so cold and rude to me that I stopped calling her. I did call on Christmas hoping my dad would answer the phone. But my mother answered and as you can tell I ended up crying for the rest of Christmas.
Now where I could use your advice is here, I want to send my mother a letter telling her how much she has hurt me and how I can never earn her love and respect. Pretty much tell her how I feel about how she is treating me. I Know if I do there will be trouble to pay. I haven't spoken to my brothers in 7 years. So you can tell there really isn't anymore family ties for me there. I am the only girl out of 4 kids.
Now where I could use your advice is here, I want to send my mother a letter telling her how much she has hurt me and how I can never earn her love and respect. Pretty much tell her how I feel about how she is treating me. I Know if I do there will be trouble to pay. I haven't spoken to my brothers in 7 years. So you can tell there really isn't anymore family ties for me there. I am the only girl out of 4 kids.