I just wanted to say that when I bought my regular sized step that came with the AllStep tape it was not the same quality as SNM tapes, there was no introduction ect. I considered it really poor quality, sound ect. it poor quality. I was concerned about buying from Cathe until I read on other forums that these were not the same quality as SNM, I was glad to hear that since I loved her style and the content of the tape and have since ordered quite a few DVD's from SNM. I have also read several threads on other forums where people got Allstep from ebay unopened and thought it was an illegal copy or a scam and that someone had sold it to them illegally when in fact this is the quality that came with my step and if I turned around and sold it I would have had no idea that it was not the same quality. I too have the ME tape that came with the high step but I gave it to a friend and did not play it because I already had the DVD, It would be great if SNM would reply to you and let you know if it is like the allstep tape where the quality is not the same as what you would get ordering from SNM. This person definetely should be returning your emails, if he strictly running a scam and buying to resell I wonder why he opened this tape to view, doesn't that take the value down from never opened to opened and viewed? Sorry I just wanted to let you know it is a possibility he got a poor quality tape that you were not aware of, either way he needs to return you emails and should have let you know his concern but should never have accused you of anything.