Beavs, I'm not trying to start anything here, but I don't think you realize that this comment is actually insulting. I'm not shallow enough to go to some "Perez Hilton lookalike" for a "zippy doo" haircut, I go to a professional hair stylist and colorist that have trained seriously to become one of the best in their field. I am not swayed by "fast talking" , I look for people that know what they're doing. I've tried several stylists at my local salon, and they just don't measure up.
I'm not defending myself to you or anyone, because I know I'm a good person. And I have a different world view too; I think that a good number of people that go to the soup kitchens you mentioned have to eat there because of the decisions they made in life. They are not helpless, and have to bear some responsibility for where they ended up in life. That's why I give to the animal shelters; I know those residents are there because of circumstances
*entirely* out of their control. I used to be "po' folk" too by the way....but I worked very hard for a lot of years, and now I make more money.
Anyway, I intended this thread to be a fun talk, not anything remotely political! So that's all I'm gonna say about that!