Lately I've lost motivation to do any workout. I used to get up early and do a workout and now all I want to do is sleep in or relax on the couch and drink coffee. . How can I get off this downward spiral? How can I ease back into everything? Feeling outta shape and pudgy.
I hear you. It's hard. I worked out every day since Jane Fonda brought her tapes out until maybe 2014/15 when my elderly mum became more dependent on me and I was working full-time and going to her place to care for her before and after the working day. On the journey there I would sometimes get through a whole can of Pringles and a family bag of sweets, just stress eating and exhaustion. She passed in 2017 and after three months of grieving in the darkest time of the year, over November, December and January I realised I had to try to get back some of my old self. Maybe you've got a little depressed - I'm pretty sure I had, but I was too stressed even to notice.
I don't really remember how I made myself start again, I just did. It coincided with Winter ending, round about February when you can start to just see the first signs of Spring, so maybe that helped me.
I already had a lot of home workout DVDs and downloads and a step and various dumbbells,( though nothing very heavy) so I just went back to the 20-30 minute a day intermediate ones. I was shocked at how hard I found them at first...and maybe ashamed too, but it's no good punishing yourself. I would do one of the 30 minute workouts each morning before work, trying to cover cardio, weights and some kind of stretch or yoga evenly across the week. After about four weeks I started to like it again, so I'd get up even earlier and fit in two of the 30 minute sessions each morning. I think the healthier eating sort of happened because I was enjoying the workouts and that energised, lighter feeling you need to get through one just doesn't come from a can of Pringles...
I guess my advice would be to start with something you know you can do without feeling like you're way out of your depth. I know the mantra here is about how if it doesn't challenge you it doesn't change you, but I just wanted to be able to get to a cool down and think, yes, I finished that! And if you are depressed, too much challenge might just make you feel like giving up. Be kind to yourself for a couple of weeks and then you'll start to want to challenge yourself again - well, that's what happened with me. We're all different.
The fact that you've come here and asked the question is, in itself, a great start. And you can read what all the responders have said and take the bits you like from each one and ignore what might not suit you
My mantra for now would be be kind to yourself and don't be afraid take baby steps rather than giant leaps.