husbands

[Kit_]

Lori,

I'm glad your getting some venting time, remember to take deep breaths and try to keep a cool head, but I do understand where your coming from. I do hope you and your husband start to get the money problems work out as well as honesty, there should be no reason why he needs to try and sneak in a truck payment you shouldn't be paying for, if he forgot to turn the dumb expense sheet in just admit it and then the two of you can work it out. I know you won't be happy but sometimes you can't always fix things after they've arleady happened.

Good luck,

Kit

 

[PUPSWIFE]

"I needed to vent so terribly bad and the sad thing is - - (I hate to admit this) but I don't tell my friends about problems like this because its embarassing and I don't want people thinking that we just got married 6 months ago and already having problems"

Reba, word to the wise...keep your lip zipped, just as you are doing with regard to discussing your personal business with friends or even family. 1) It is none of their business 2) you never know who your friends/family will discuss your private "vents" to (people LOVE to gossip) 3) Those "vents" might end up haunting you if they get back to your husband. Guaranteed to piss him off and who would blame him if finds out you've blabbed to all of your friends that you two are having problems? You would feel the same way if he told all of his buddies you two were having problems. Continue venting on the boards.

You've received great advice here and Suze Orman's books ROCK! If you can get your husband to read her books, you'll both be on the same page, ya know?

Hang in there!

 

[Bobbi]

Very nice, Pupswife! Your advice is right on and I'm impressed with your maturity and insight.
Bobbi http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmilies.de/chicken.gif "Chick's rule!"

Maturity is the ability to do a job whether or not you are supervised, to carry money without spending it, and to bear an injustice without wanting to get even.

-Ann Landers