Most American families are 2 paychecks from bankruptcy. Take a downsize, a family emergency and now you're knocking at the door.
In our case it was a long term medical issue. I was keeping the house no matter what.
If you had to look at the repercussions of bankruptcy, you'd understand. It wasn't vacations or the "high life" that put us at the "edge".
The medical issue wasn't going to go away because I changed my habits.