rosepetals
Active Member
Hi everyone. Thank you for your prayers. I broke up with my boyfriend. He was starting to become physically abusive. I found out he was using my credit card aganist my permission. Was trying to turn me aganist my daughter...
He was a pro. In the beginning he treated me like a princess. Took me out to dinners, bought me flowers, jewlery. Gradually over time he started talking about his past, how nobody ever got him any presents. I felt sorry for him so on occasion I would buy him a book he wanted. Then he wanted a mini-bike. . .
His requests started comming more often. I told him I could not afford to purchase him all his wants. Then he started using my credit card without my knowledge. He ran it up. He complained when at Christmas, I only got him colone. I told him I was so in debt that That was all I could afford. My daughter picked out about $25.00 worth of presents.
His birthday was a $50.00 gift card. He got mad. I spent more on him than I really could afford. He said I cheeted him out of a big screen tv that he wanted at Christmas. I did not. He did not care that I am a single parent struggling to make ends meet, keep a roof over our heads. He was very manipulative and controling while looking so innocent while he was doing this. He was professional and has done this to several other women. He was greedy and his greed was hidden, twisted with manipulation. It was difficult to see for some time.
He became threatening, calling me names when I told him he had to pay for his eating out habit. When he had to buy his soda, etc. I stop giving him any money. He started to become physically abusive, emotionally, etc.
He had wanted me to put him on the title of the house. Wanted power of attourney if I became ill. He would of cleaned me out.
I found his last wife and he forced her to loose her house when she added him to the title again after his begging her to do so after being married. The home had been in her name. He wrote checks on her account. He became abusive with her.
I planned for a week to get him out. I told my boss what was up. He appoligized for his brutality on a cell phone message. I told the police, they did not care. They told me I had to give him a 30 day evection notice to get him out of my home. I told my neighbors and arranged for them to watch from across the street. I unplugged the phones so he could not get phone calls, then I called his parents to come and get him or else I would call the police. (a bluff that worked because the police would not get him out) Anyway I waited down the street until they came. Then his mom broke the news to him. He packed up and left. The neighbor across the street had someone in uniform (it looked official, I don't know what line of work they were in) but it made them panic.
He complained it was premeditated. I had him leave with his paycheck in his pocket on his day off so he would have a chance to get his life together.
His ex said he has done this repeatedly to multiple women. He was so good at what he did that I did not have a clue what was coming.
Now I am starting over, with a thrashed house from him, ripping out carpet walking on particle board floors as I don't have money to replace the floring. But my daughter and I are safe.
I have to get a security system. The neighbor was arrested yesterday for abuse and released today. I can't believe what the world is turning into.
He was a pro. In the beginning he treated me like a princess. Took me out to dinners, bought me flowers, jewlery. Gradually over time he started talking about his past, how nobody ever got him any presents. I felt sorry for him so on occasion I would buy him a book he wanted. Then he wanted a mini-bike. . .
His requests started comming more often. I told him I could not afford to purchase him all his wants. Then he started using my credit card without my knowledge. He ran it up. He complained when at Christmas, I only got him colone. I told him I was so in debt that That was all I could afford. My daughter picked out about $25.00 worth of presents.
His birthday was a $50.00 gift card. He got mad. I spent more on him than I really could afford. He said I cheeted him out of a big screen tv that he wanted at Christmas. I did not. He did not care that I am a single parent struggling to make ends meet, keep a roof over our heads. He was very manipulative and controling while looking so innocent while he was doing this. He was professional and has done this to several other women. He was greedy and his greed was hidden, twisted with manipulation. It was difficult to see for some time.
He became threatening, calling me names when I told him he had to pay for his eating out habit. When he had to buy his soda, etc. I stop giving him any money. He started to become physically abusive, emotionally, etc.
He had wanted me to put him on the title of the house. Wanted power of attourney if I became ill. He would of cleaned me out.
I found his last wife and he forced her to loose her house when she added him to the title again after his begging her to do so after being married. The home had been in her name. He wrote checks on her account. He became abusive with her.
I planned for a week to get him out. I told my boss what was up. He appoligized for his brutality on a cell phone message. I told the police, they did not care. They told me I had to give him a 30 day evection notice to get him out of my home. I told my neighbors and arranged for them to watch from across the street. I unplugged the phones so he could not get phone calls, then I called his parents to come and get him or else I would call the police. (a bluff that worked because the police would not get him out) Anyway I waited down the street until they came. Then his mom broke the news to him. He packed up and left. The neighbor across the street had someone in uniform (it looked official, I don't know what line of work they were in) but it made them panic.
He complained it was premeditated. I had him leave with his paycheck in his pocket on his day off so he would have a chance to get his life together.
His ex said he has done this repeatedly to multiple women. He was so good at what he did that I did not have a clue what was coming.
Now I am starting over, with a thrashed house from him, ripping out carpet walking on particle board floors as I don't have money to replace the floring. But my daughter and I are safe.
I have to get a security system. The neighbor was arrested yesterday for abuse and released today. I can't believe what the world is turning into.
