Hi Bette!!! I also have bunions on both feet--it's hereditary on my mother's side of the family and all of the women have them. I've also had some pain from them, especially after doing aerobics and other cardio. They seem to throb at night the worst. I've found that since I started wearing Nike shox during cardio workouts, the pain doesn't seem to be as bad. They're pricy, but the extra cushion must really help!!
Also, my mother and grandmother have both had the surgery to remove the bunions. My grandmother had hers many years ago (I think in the late 80s) and I don't remember how long her recovery took, but I do know that the bunions came back!! But then again, there's been a lot of improvement in technology and surgical techniques since then, so I'm sure that the surgery's more advanced now to prevent that. My mother had hers about 10 years ago and she had both done at the same time. Her surgery seems to have worked, but she had a very long recovery time b/c she was up and trying to move around too soon. I know I'm going to have to have it done eventually, but I'm going to put it off for as long as I can. I'm only 24 now, so I have a feeling that the pain is going to get much worse as I get older.
I've done some research online about the surgery and what I read (can't remember the site) said that typical recovery time is about 8 weeks, depending on what surgery you've had done--as someone else mentioned before, there's several different types and the dr will determine which is best for your situation. 8 WEEKS----YIKES!!!! But I do like the idea of still doing weights--I hadn't really thought of that before. Hope this helps!!!