>>Did if give any suggestions?
Basically, rather than 'hollowing out' the abdominal wall (a visible 'sucking in'), you activate the abdominal muscles to make them stiff. The abdominals should neither draw in nor bulge out during this move. This activates all three levels of the abdominal wall (rectus, transverse and obliques) to help shore up the spine, rather than just activating the transverse, the way sucking-in does.
As I said, slap or pound yourself around the waist a bit, and isometrically brace to absorb the impact. You're not trying to keep someone (yourself!) from hitting you by moving your muscles out of the way by sucking in, but rather to be able to withstand the impact by tensing them. If you do this with a relaxed abdominal wall, then with isometric tension, you should be able to feel the difference.
HTH!