Do ALL men cheat in Vegas?

trixie108

trixie108

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Ok so this guy I've been seeing for a few weeks is going to Vegas this weekend for a bachelor party. No big deal, right? Well this morning I told my boss about it (we're good friends too), and he says "Well he's going to have sex, you know that right? All guys cheat in Vegas" :confused:

What?!?

I know we've only been dating for a few weeks, but is it true that all men cheat in vegas?? I'm all nervous now! I was fine before!! So now I don't know if I should not worry about it (but still silently worry about it) or ask him flat out when he comes back if he did (but I don't want to be labeled "insecure"). Help!
 
Nicole,

I personally would not just flat out ask when he gets back. Like you, I don't want to be thought of as insecure, etc.

I am wondering if you can "jokingly" tell him what your boss said. You all can laugh about it while together and then he will know that you have thought about it.

Phew! Being a woman is a lot of work!

Carrie
 
That's just absurd! ALL MEN don't cheat in Vegas! That's a ridiculous blanket statement.

You have to trust the person you are with. If you were inclined to trust him before your boss made that statement then you should STILL trust him now.

JMHO. :)
 
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I've run into guys, groom included, who were real idiots and willing to cheat on their girlfriends, wives, and new bride. So they definitely are out there. But I've also known guys who drink, gamble, go into shock over how easy it is to lose several hundred at a poker table, go out to eat, and then pass out watching cable in their rooms.

If a guy is willing to cheat, then he'll cheat anywhere. If he isn't the type, then going to Vegas won't make a difference.

At worst, if your boyfriend is a great guy and not looking to cheat on you, he'll go to a strip club, or the guys will hire a stripper, and that's it. Not that I'm a fan of this, but it's something a lot of guys think is the right thing to do for the groom.
 
What FitMommy said, and if it doesn't work out with this guy, don't date your boss! He's clearly in the cheaters category.....

-Beth
 
Your friend is a bozo, most men don't cheat.

1) you are not insecure. You're just shell shocked.

2) Your friend's statement is ridiculous.

Not all men cheat. And the guys who don't cheat aren't going to start cheating just because they are in Vegas.

Talk to your guy now, before he goes to Vegas.

Tell him what your friend said, and let him tell you how stupid the statement was.
Also, if you haven't already said it out loud to each other, now would be a good time to state that you consider each other to be in an exclusive relationship and there are no passes, not even for Vegas.

Also, remember that you trusted this guy before your bozo boss made that horrible statement. You had a reason for trusting him then, and nothing has changed.

Imagine your boss had said "You know he's going to be abducted by aliens, right? All guys are abducted by aliens when they go to Vegas." You'd think he was nuts if he said that to you. Well, his statement about cheating is just as ridiculous.

It also indicates what kind of a man he is. Be grateful he isn't your boyfriend, because he apparently thinks its ok to cheat in Vegas. If he weren't your boss I'd tell you to give him grief about it. What a jerk. He probably thought he was funny, too.

I repeat MOST MEN DON'T CHEAT, EVEN IN VEGAS! and yes, I meant to shout that.
 
What Happens In Vegas Stays In Vegas

In my honest opinion -- if he's gonna cheat on you he sure doesn't have to come out to Vegas to do it. I sure hope he doesn't.
 
A cheater will cheat in Vegas, in Boise, in Toronto...heck a cheater will cheat in a gas station *bathroom* if the opportunity presents itself. It has nothing to do with the location and everything to do with the character of the man.
 
sparrow13 said:
A cheater will cheat in Vegas, in Boise, in Toronto...heck a cheater will cheat in a gas station *bathroom* if the opportunity presents itself. It has nothing to do with the location and everything to do with the character of the man.
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Well said - ITA with this.

AND - I wouldn't ask your boyfriend for any details. If he shares- listen and laugh at the stories, but don't pry.
 
bitmover said:
What FitMommy said, and if it doesn't work out with this guy, don't date your boss! He's clearly in the cheaters category.....

-Beth
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ITA! Your boss is probably using his own experience and projecting it onto everyone to make his behavior seem "normal" rather than "slimy."
 
My coworker just got back from Vegas. I KNOW he did not cheat - he's not the type at all, although he did own up to seeing a few topless women. :p
 
Fit_mommy said:
That's just absurd! ALL MEN don't cheat in Vegas! That's a ridiculous blanket statement.

You have to trust the person you are with. If you were inclined to trust him before your boss made that statement then you should STILL trust him now.

JMHO. :)
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Ditto! My husband has been to Vegas a couple of times and he has NOT been unfaithful! Actually, he's been all over the place in our 8 years so far and I've never not trusted him!

Don't listen to your boss! You have to have trust in the person you're with or there's no relationship.
 
I agree with a previous post, "cheaters will cheat, others will not." I don't think the location would make a difference myself. So, I say give your man the benefit of trust this weekend. And, don't stay home alone this weekend, go out and have fun with your friends too!!
 
I think it's funny how telling that is of your boss's character, but I agree, that's just a ridiculous statement.
 
It seems like a rather mean spirited thing to say. Perhaps you might want to be a little less friendly with this toxic sounding pal.
 
I think your boss should not have said this. If you man is not a cheater, he won't cheat no matter where he is. That's crazy! I do like the suggestion of letting him now jokingly what your boss said if you don't really know him that well.

Take care!
 
if a man is a cheater then he doesn't need vegas to cheat, its just a way for them to think they won't get caught.if you trust your man then trust he won't do that. i know my DH wouldn't even in the beginning of our relationship i trusted him that he wouldn't.

kassia
 
Wow, thanks for all the responses! I totally trust this guy, I guess my boss's statement just threw me for a loop. It was a kinda crappy thing to say. Hopefully everything goes well!
 
I agee that Vegas makes no difference - a cheater will cheat anywhere.

But I do have another general question - what is up with this trend to have getaway Bachelor or Bachelorette Parties. I just recently heard of a Bachelor party planned for the The Bahamas - The groom's idea. Who has this kind of money to fly out to Vegas, spend money to travel, hotel room - and any other activity for someone's night out?!!!?!?! Does anybody else think this is ridiculous?
 
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