Hi,Cathe I am halfway into the rotation you suggested for losing 20-30 lbs for a family event. I was wondering at what point should I increase my weights. I am currently in the 2nd phase of the Slow/Heavy week and find that I am not sore anymore. I actually was looking forward to this ( I guess that makes me crazy ). My muscle feel very tense but not sore. I actually did pyramid upper body and lower body for 1 week and I was not sore at all, usually the pyramids make me sore after not doing it for a while. I have recieved great results, I dont use the scale, but everyone tells me that I look like I lost about 15-20 lbs. I have not purchased any new clothes yet, just wearing sweatpants and exercise pants with t-shirts which are very baggy on me. I made my husband purchase sweatpants that he thinks I can wear because I dont want to know my new size yet. Anyhow back to the question in hand, when should I increase my weights. I use the same amount of weight that you use, except in the legs workout from slow/heavy. I just cant use that 45lb dumbbell (I think you use that) in the leg pile exercise and I cant go as heavy for shoulders exercises. I dont want to go too heavy and sabbotage my goals. thanks for responding. Chap.:7