Just wanted to be clear...
*I* don't think of myself as an *older* woman. (I know now I should have phrased the subject matter differently) In fact, until I hurt my shoulder, I felt that I was the healthiest and strongest I have ever been. It was the attitude of this doctor that I was expressing. What's funny is a family friend who is closer to 50 also just hurt her shoulder, went to a sports specific orthopedic doctor, and was told that women *her* age routinely hurt their shoulders by trying to lift weights heavier than they should or by intense physical activity. She was lifting less than I was AND she has been exercising for years. She's very fit as well. Now she's scheduled for an operation to repair a torn rotator cuff.
Regardless of age, you can hurt yourself lifting weights if you don't pay attention to form and the difference between a good sore and a bad sore. Even though both doctors seem to be against lifting heavy, I will still train as heavy as I can. (Except shoulder work, at least for now.) I guess everyone, eventually, will have a part of their body (knees, back, wrists) that no matter how fit you are, will need extra care(?). The doctor I saw mentioned knees and achilles tendons tend to blow out on older athletes as well. (Well I hurt my achilles tendon in my early 20's when I was running 8-10 miles a day.) Maybe these doctors are just erring on the side of caution, or maybe they see alot of people who are older that jump on the fitness wagon doing way more than they should. (But I *look* very muscular and I did express that I've doing this for years..)
My shoulder has regained it's range of motion, but it's still painful from time to time. I haven't worked out going on 4 weeks and I'm really frustrated. I'm going to try walking and some floor workouts. I'm so nervous about aggravating it, and setting myself back. The doctor has given me exercises for my shoulder and I can do them, but still very nervous about hurting it again.
I am going to continue to try and find a orthopedic sports doctor for future reference, though. Thanks again to everyone who has responded to this thread. It has helped me to feel better about my training. (And this is an *educated* crowd
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Jackie