Absolutely, wholeheartedly agree with you Kristin!!!! It kills the spirit for me too. My Christmas spirit comes in various ways - hanging ornaments on the tree with the family while drinking eggnog, sipping coffee next to my tree first thing in the am when noone else is up, visiting/quality time with our families, driving around and looking at the Christmas lights, shopping for presents with my mom (we go on a week day to avoid the brunt of the crowds)
I really dread the holidays in so many ways, but there are sweet, quiet and poignant moments tossed in there that do make Christmas meaningful. You just have to cherish those (giving myself a pep talk here
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