Binge Eating

> Sometimes when I get home from a meeting at
>midnight I'll eat half a box of cookies, a couple of donuts &
>a bag of chips--like I'm cramming 6 hours worth of eating into
>one.

I think processed carbs like these are the most common foods to binge on, and part of the reason is that they are nutrient and fiber poor, so even after eating a large quantity, the body isn't satisfied.

Not having these foods in the house is one step to avoid binging. And that starts at the grocery store. I find that if I go to the grocery store when I'm hungry, suddenly that big bag of chips looks good to me, even though I may regret getting it later. And when it's around, I eat it.

It helps me to have some healthy snacks in my car (like Larabars) so that if I do start getting tempted at the grocery store, I can tell myself that I have something better waiting for me in the car.

It's hard to 'binge' on salads and veggies.
 
You know, you make an excellent point re. the forums, not to mention the various other constant, continual media items on dieting. In fact I don't read any of the dieting oriented threads on the forums b/c I've found what works for me & don't want to muddy the waters w/TMI. It's like information overload.

I've always said the best diet for a person is the one they can stick with. I do Atkins but that doesn't mean that's what works best for the person sitting next to me, & I would never presume to tell someone their diet is "wrong" or "not healthy." It really is a very personal thing.

That said, at the age of 39 & being involved in fitness for 18 years, I think the most important thing I've learned is to go easy on myself. I don't feel guilty if I miss a workout. I feel badly if I miss more than a week, but I think that's more of a psychological/stress relief thing rather than a fear of getting fat. And I don't feel guilty for binging, b/c I work so hard on both my exercise routine and my diet--if I didn't give myself a break sometimes I'd be miserable.
 
Joanne,
I have the same problem as you. I have a pantry full of store bought treats for my family to enjoy in moderation and have no problem staying away from it, but if I bake something, I lose all self-control. It is really frustrating. So, I bake and give it to my neighbor who is pregnant!

Sally,
I used to "zone out" as well. If I feel the urge to binge, I pretend that I am in the room with myself watching me. Does that make sense? I go through what I look like, how I will feel, etc. This was not easy to do, but it often stopped me. I realized that it just wasn't worth it. Also, working out at 5AM has not allowed me to eat poorly the night before. If I do, my workout just plain stinks!

Doreen,
I am sorry that you are struggling with this. My heart goes out to you. :) I controlled my bingeing with several strategies. I figured out the number of calories that I could eat to maintain my weight and ate them every day. I found that choosing low calorie foods allowed me to eat a ton of food. Volume is something that helps me feel satiated. I also limited my choices, so that I didn't need to think about what I was going to eat so much. I basically created my own eating plan that consisted of 3 meals and 2 snacks of low-calorie healthy foods that I liked. I looked forward to eating these foods every day, so was less inclined to eat others. I also buy those individually wrapped squares of Ghiradelli chocolate(dark) and eat about 4 throughout the day. They are very satisfying and have increased my HDL(the good kind) by 30 points! I am writing a book here, but I think at first you just need to develop a plan of eating that works for you. Also, changing your routine during the times you binge can help. Start a project at home or do yoga at night (which is very painful if your stomach is full!) and definitely keep trigger foods far from your kitchen. Sugar-free gum works wonders also. I hope these scattered thoughts help. Feel free to email me if I can help in any way. I struggled with bulimia for four years and have had it under control now for over three years. You can definitely win this battle!:)
 
Thank you so much everyone who replied. It definitely feels really good to know that I'm not alone in this and that others have and do face the same feelings and struggles.

I am trying to take it one day at a time. Hopefully I'll be able to either stop the bingeing using a lot of the suggestions that you have given me, or at least not feel so badly about it when it happens.

I agree that I definitely need to find an eating plan that works for me. I know that I need to allow some variety and flexibility into my regular plan... I have eaten the same exact breakfast and lunch every day, probably for about 2 years now! Yesterday instead of having the same salad for lunch, I actually had a sandwich and it made a big difference in my feeling of satisfaction, and I didn't pig out last night...so maybe there is hope for me. Little changes, and one day at a time...

Again, thank you everyone for taking the time to write.
 
Doreen,

I have found that when my usual meals are no longer leaving me satisfied that I need to change things up, so I think that you are on the right track! Maybe your body is telling you that you are missing some nutrients because you lack variety? I struggle with variety as well and can tell when I need to branch out. Our bodies function best when we eat a wide array of foods, so good job! :)
 
Doreen,

Do you have protein at every meal, especially breakfast and lunch? This helps me tremendously. A good breakfast for me is oatmeal, skim milk and scrambled eggs made with one egg & 1/3 c. egg whites (from a carton). If I have that I don't binge. If I have, say pancakes or Cheerios & fruit, or something like that for breakfast, I am practically guaranteed to binge when evening rolls around. It's not a conscious thing ... I really think it comes down to body chemistry and the balance you've had earlier in the day.

Stebby
 

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