I have 40-50lbs to lose as well. My weight has yo-yo'd since I was a teenager. I have lost weight successfully in the past, but as I am challenged with the tendency to eat emotionally, it creeps back whenever I go through a stressful time.
That said, I lost 30 lbs in 2007; & have maintained about 22lbs of that weight loss. That's mainly due to exercising regularly. Exercise helps me de-stress as well as keeps the extra poundage off. But as I said, I still would like to lose 40-50lbs more & just need to get disciplined with the eating.
Week 1 of Meso 1, I ate clean, did WW strictly and I lost 2 lbs that week. Then, I had a lot of stress on my job the following 3 wks & ate sweets like crazy! So, didn't lose any more weight. But I can feel that my body has firmed up a great deal (underneath some layers of "padding"
). I also feel that my metabolism has revved up--my appetite increased some after beginning STS (at least I hope that's the reason for the increased munchies!). And I can tell I have made some strength gains: some exercises that were difficult for me to do at the beginning of Meso 1, I was able to perform by week 4.
I'm in the rest week now & I took some time off work to rest mentally. Also, I cut out all sweets as of Sunday & plan to maintain that for the rest of STS. I'm pretty sure that if I eat clean, the scale will move more favorably (but I'm also monitoring by taking my measurements once a week). In the past, the combo of clean eating + cardio 3-5 days/wk + weight work 3 days/wk is what worked for me.
I agree though with not being too focused on the results. I get an accomplishment boost just from managing to get through each workout. I think exercising has soon many benefits to our emotional, mental, & physically health & it's good to focus on those things as well.