Also, if you have been working out that long and are that fit, you should be using way over 35 pounds for S&H. I really do believe that women grossly underestimate their lower body strength. If you are a believer in going heavy, then you need to really go heavy. Leaner Legs is fine with 35 pounds of course. You have been working out a long time! When people "swear by" different exercise methods, you don't know whether they were a beginner and started with Pilates and therefore had been doing NO weight training. Ok, well, then of course they will say it really helped them. But I would question going from heavy lifting to only Pilates. Sounds like you already have quite a bit of cross training and leg work going on. I mean are your legs just BIG or do they have like mounds of fat and cellulite hanging off of them??
By the way, I am 27 yrs old 5'1 and 131 pounds, so I am pretty much in your category too...my legs are "big", but definitly not "fat".....
Janice