Animal lovers, dogs in particular

Bobbi

Cathlete
Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their little boy, Shane, were all very attached to Belker and they
were hoping for a miracle. I examined Belker and found that he was dying of cancer.

I told the family that there were no miracles left for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home. As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for the four-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt Shane could learn something from the experience.

The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on.

Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away. The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives.

Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why." Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. He said, "Everybody is born so that they can learn how to live a good life -- like loving everybody and being nice, right?" The four-year-old continued, "Well, animals already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long".

Bobbi http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmilies.de/chicken.gif "Chick's rule!"

Tell me, what it is you plan to do with your one wild and precious life? Mary Oliver
 
That just goes to show you, kids can cut through all the "stuff" and get to what's really important. My kids have said some incredible stuff in these kinds of situations.


--Lois

"Don't forget to breathe!"
 
Now that gave me a smile and teary eyed response at the same time.:+ ;( Thanks Bobbi....:)...Carole
 
By the by, I am not a vet but cut and pasted this from an email from my dear old aunt in such a hurry, I failed to mention it's from an email I was on the fly but liked it. Most of you know I am a SAHM but thought I'd clarify. ;) And I'm off! :D
Bobbi http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmilies.de/chicken.gif "Chick's rule!"

Tell me, what it is you plan to do with your one wild and precious life? Mary Oliver
 
;( How sad and sweet at the same time.
Kids really do have a wisdom that adults seem to have lost. There was a thread here a while ago about children's quotes about what love it. Some of the things they said were just breathtakingly beautiful and wise.
 
Nancy---that would explain my MIL, too. ;-)

That is the most profound thing I've ever heard from a four year old!
 

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