Thank you for the replies. Well, a friend also told me to go to profiles but when I checked advanced I didn't have the option to change the default ringtone. Anywho I started trying other things earlier today and I found how to do it. I'm going to post it just in case. Go to the Media icon then select Ringtones then Preloaded Ring Tones and select any ringtone you'd like to listen to, to play it either press the scroll ball or press the menu button (right at the left of the scroll ball) and select play. When you find the ringtone you want press the menu button again and select Set as phone tune. That would be the new default ringtone. You can also set different ringtones for different users but that's easy to figure out because you select the contact and when you press the menu button it appears as an option. As for downloading new ringtones well I don't know if it is the same for all companies. I have AT&T and there's an icon in my phone where I can go to shop for ringtones. I hope this helps.
Now I have to figure out how to change the ringtone for my text messages. lol!
Oh and yes, just in case I forgot, I really really really love this phone! I am in love with it. Crackberry indeed.:7