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Cathlete
So sorry for your loss Kim! I am so glad that you had friends at work to relate with. Grieving is easier with friends, I think. The children are the saddest to me. They are so young to lose their mom. Don't ever worry about bringing down the thread. We are here for every thing good and bad!
I am with all of yall too with fitness and friend issues. I started running a long time ago to stave off weight gain from smoking and my bf wanted to join me. At first she was into it but then she started to dread it and she brought that negative attitude with her every time we went running. Then she made me dread the fact that she was coming. It was terrible. Of course we were just starting out so we would do run walk intervals. On our last run interval, she groaned with distaste and I finally told her that she was bringing me down and she took off. haha She left me in the dust. I have to laugh now because she was so mad that I told her all her complaining was messing my run up and it pissed her off enough to run faster! I think that was our last run! Since then she will come to me off and on and say she wants to get in shape but she can not be consistent. Right now she has some of my Cathe dvd's and I asked her after a couple of weeks how she was doing and she had not tried them yet. You can try to be supportive but a lot of times people just want it to just happen. They look at you and think that it must come easy or that there is some secret you are not sharing. My mom says I have my Great Aunts genes because she was an 80 lb anorexic. I say no I just don't eat gravy at every meal and I work my butt off...haha
My bf also doesn't want to feel "deprived". I tried to tell her I am not depriving myself of anything. For the most part, if I want something I have it. I also tried to tell her that the healthier you eat the less your body craves the bad food, but no one believes that either...because that would be easy, right? Oh well I just thought I would throw my vent in there too. I think we all have had similar experiences because it is hard for people to be happy for you when they fell you have what they want but won't give it up because they don't have it...does that make sense...
Cendrine-Our rain and thunder will be here tomorrow. Would you believe it was 70 degrees here today? Our weather is all over the place. Tomorrow they are predicting hail and high winds...I hope not!
It sound like you are getting more confident with your work outs! You will be doing SC before you know it.
Jo-Feel free to vent all you need. I do not know why but you make me laugh even when you are venting. Did you enjoy the balmy January weather?
Mary-I always worry about dh walking in on a not so great moment for me too. Like when my eyes are popping out and I am only an inch away from smashing my face in the ground. I can not go down cause I like my teeth and I can not go up because I just can't.
Kim-I know I said it up top but I will be thinking about you. It is hard to lose a friend. I lost my bf from high school a few yrs back to a car wreck and I had lost touch with her a while before her death. I still regret that. I still have dreams about her and think for a brief second when I wake up that she is still here. It does really put a lot into perspective.
I am glad you shared with us.
OK alll I am off to bed. It is hard to wake up this week so I am going to give myself some extra sleep.
Rachel
I am with all of yall too with fitness and friend issues. I started running a long time ago to stave off weight gain from smoking and my bf wanted to join me. At first she was into it but then she started to dread it and she brought that negative attitude with her every time we went running. Then she made me dread the fact that she was coming. It was terrible. Of course we were just starting out so we would do run walk intervals. On our last run interval, she groaned with distaste and I finally told her that she was bringing me down and she took off. haha She left me in the dust. I have to laugh now because she was so mad that I told her all her complaining was messing my run up and it pissed her off enough to run faster! I think that was our last run! Since then she will come to me off and on and say she wants to get in shape but she can not be consistent. Right now she has some of my Cathe dvd's and I asked her after a couple of weeks how she was doing and she had not tried them yet. You can try to be supportive but a lot of times people just want it to just happen. They look at you and think that it must come easy or that there is some secret you are not sharing. My mom says I have my Great Aunts genes because she was an 80 lb anorexic. I say no I just don't eat gravy at every meal and I work my butt off...haha
My bf also doesn't want to feel "deprived". I tried to tell her I am not depriving myself of anything. For the most part, if I want something I have it. I also tried to tell her that the healthier you eat the less your body craves the bad food, but no one believes that either...because that would be easy, right? Oh well I just thought I would throw my vent in there too. I think we all have had similar experiences because it is hard for people to be happy for you when they fell you have what they want but won't give it up because they don't have it...does that make sense...
Cendrine-Our rain and thunder will be here tomorrow. Would you believe it was 70 degrees here today? Our weather is all over the place. Tomorrow they are predicting hail and high winds...I hope not!
It sound like you are getting more confident with your work outs! You will be doing SC before you know it.
Jo-Feel free to vent all you need. I do not know why but you make me laugh even when you are venting. Did you enjoy the balmy January weather?
Mary-I always worry about dh walking in on a not so great moment for me too. Like when my eyes are popping out and I am only an inch away from smashing my face in the ground. I can not go down cause I like my teeth and I can not go up because I just can't.
Kim-I know I said it up top but I will be thinking about you. It is hard to lose a friend. I lost my bf from high school a few yrs back to a car wreck and I had lost touch with her a while before her death. I still regret that. I still have dreams about her and think for a brief second when I wake up that she is still here. It does really put a lot into perspective.
I am glad you shared with us.
OK alll I am off to bed. It is hard to wake up this week so I am going to give myself some extra sleep.
Rachel