Tina,
Before you commit to a program, let me ask you what your weight loss goals are?
I want to tell you about my experience with WW meetings.
I only had about 15 lbs to lose, I fought those 15 lbs for 2 years. I tried joining meetings. The meetings had a lot of really great people in them, but they had WAY different goals than I. Most were looking to lose more weight & had issues with learning to eat properly. They needed more guidance & they didn't exercise regularly. I liked the women until they started whining about it being everyone elses fault that they couldn't lose the weight. When I started talking about exercising, I found that even the leader had no idea what true physical fitness is. That was very frustrating for me. I was hungry all the time because she told me to never add more than 2 activity points for exercise. 2 points is the equivalent of a banana. Until recently I didn't know that there are ways to calculate activity points so that I am getting the nutrition I need based on my activity level. I ended up quitting after 3 months & was only down 1 pound.
I tried BFL but didn't have enough information about nutrition from the book to make it work. I ended up quitting that, too.
Fast forward to 3 months ago. I joined a program on-line called Physique Transformation (
www.physiquetransformation.com). I downloaded the free e-book, read it in 1 sitting. I stuck it out through 7 weeks & learned a great deal about nutrition. But I found it too restrictive. I wanted to eat more vegis, which was hard to do on this program. I did lose body fat, not so much weight because I was having tremendous muscle gains--I have definition that I didnt' before.
I decided to try WW on-line 5 weeks ago. I like the idea of being in control of my own destiny. I like the points system but I felt there had to be a better way. I was going to give it a real shot & see what happened. I paid the $59.99 for 3 months. I was more determined to get rid of the jiggles.
Today I am down 5 lbs (I've had 2 bad weeks & have gained back 2 pounds that I had lost). I can see some true definition in my arms that wasn't there before. My love handles are going away. I tried on my bathing suit from last year & look pretty darn good--I never should have worn this suit last year but I did (it wasn't pretty! lol).
I want you to notice, I said I HAVE had 2 bad weeks. I ate what I did knowing that I was not being productive in my weight loss goal. I've had some celebrating to do & let my eating get out of control. I'm not going to a meeting & saying "well, you know it was mother's day, graduation week, & my birthday. Everyone was putting out chips & cake & we were drinking too much wine." I put these foods into my mouth knowing I was going off program & just preparing myself for the worst.
Today, I start back on program again. Next week when I weigh myself, I will have weight loss again because I'm taking responsibility for my progress & moving forward again. No looking back.
Now, that being said, know what your goals are. Know that YOU have to take responsibility for your goals. I assume that you know a little about fitness if you are posting or reading this forum (Cathe doesn't call us the educated crowd for nothing--lol). You might go into a meeting & find that you are the only one in the room exercising with any kind of intensity. I HATED THAT! I wanted people I could relate to.
I highly recommend
www.weightwatchers.com. Using their e-tools has been awesome for me. I have found that I can calculate my own activity points using the intsensity level Cathe makes me work at (high). When I was in meetings I was taking my 2 little points & starving. Now I know I get 4 a day. It's still only 2 bananas but I'm not hungry!
Be prepared for SLOOOOOWWWW weight loss. It's better for your body but you can do it.
Whatever you decide, on-line, meetings or BFL, GOOD LUCK! You can do it!