My last word & olive branch
Karen, Mindi, members & visiting VFers,
I think Karen's right that I did what I asked you all not to do, and, as Karen put it, wagged my finger at a whole community because of my frustration with seeing Cathe's crowd criticized again at VF. I agree with everyone who's said let's move on and get along, and to all of you, I'm really sorry and quite PO'd at myself for adding fuel, not water, to the flames. Never, ever my style or my intention.
Mindi, I shouldn't have singled you out unfairly. I hope your customer service issues are quickly resolved and I sincerely hope to see lots of you around here.
My last word on this is to repeat what I said in the other thread over at "Ask Cathe", and that is this: Next time a thread is started at VF where the "cultish and intolerant" supposed nature of "Cathe-ites" is critiqued (and I fear that there will be a next time because it's happened repeatedly for years, but I'll hope there won't be a next time), would those of you who are regular posters at VF please step up and post a defense of this community? Anyone is always welcome to come here and post constructively critical remarks. If someone on this forum responds to an appropriately-worded criticism by going off onto a flaming rant (and that certainly includes me), he or she will have earned a good thrashing from the rest of the membership.
P.S. After some thought I have revised my original post, because you guys quite correctly "called" me on it. I've tried to remove all elements of stupid name-calling (since my adult self has re-asserted her voice
), but I've left the gist of the post intact because it still expresses how I feel about this recurring but let's hope now dead issue between VF and Cathe.com.
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