I would highly, highly, recommend Reebok Step - The Video with Gin Miller. The cueing is the absolute best!!! I did Weight Watchers along with sit ups, a gallon of water/a day and this this tape alone (5 days a week - very gradually increasing my step and icorporating wrist (5 lbs) and hand weights (3,4,5,7 lbs into the routine). After 9 months and 3 tons of sweat and tears, I was down 85 lbs and went from a size 22 to a "sculpted" size 6. Anything is possible!!! And I never got bored with the tape. I still use it in my workout routine. Gin is all business. No whooooping, laughing, retelling of the same joke, or complicated stepping. Just up, up, down, down. And it works!! Tell your friend not to get caught up in what everyone else does, just don't give up, be consistent, and most importantly......be patietnt. And please tell her not to be fooled by any naysayers!! Working out doesn't have to be all that complicated!!!!