Wendy,
I am so sorry to hear about Joey. My son, Andy, is about the same age as Joey, and we used to write to each other on the pregnancy forum when we were both pregnant. Andy was born on 3/21/05, and I believe that Joey was near Andy's birthday.
How is he doing now? I can't believe how scared you and your DH must have been (not to mention, poor Joey). I will keep all of you in my prayers. Please keep us posted.
-Jen