What someone actually said to me at work...

[Fach]

I would have felt the same way but maybe she meant muscular/toned/defined legs and not fat legs.

 

[dss62467]

Yeah, I would definitely have been offended. It's seriously out of line, but I just can't believe some of the things people have said to me. I probably would have reacted the same as you did, though. I never tell anybody that they've offended me.

 

[dss62467]

It's actually a bit creepy. Whispering in your ear like that? Bleah

 

[Beavs]

Hmmm...perhaps this is an indication that your company is due for some sensitivity training.

There are a lot of highly inappropriate comments that aren't mean to offend but 1.) they are still inappropriate and 2.) they are still offensive.

Generally speaking, I think that if a person does not feel comfortable speaking to the offender directly they are perfectly within their rights to speak to their supervisor.