What is the most spontaneous thing you've ever done??

I went to London with my college's semester abroad program back in the fall of 1980. I wanted to go out with a bit of a bang on my last night in London, and Jonathan Pryce was appearing in the 3-person play Harold Pinter's "The Caretaker" also at the Lyttleton of the National Theatre. I'd read about Pryce's innovative interpretation of "Hamlet" earlier on Broadway (instead of a separate actor playing the ghost of his father, Pryce's Hamlet became possessed by his father's spirit and acted out the dialog that way), and had already seen "The Caretaker" once earlier in the month. I bought a ticket for the evening's performance for my last night, AND I bought a Christmas card for Pryce that I brought with me to the theatre that night. I gave a ticket booth attendant the card; he said he would send it backstage to Pryce.

Well. After the performance I got a bee in my hat and went backstage afterward. Lo and behold there were several others back there just as natural as you please, to meet and congratulate the actors. I was brought back to the dressing rooms, whereupon I was introduced to Kenneth Cranham (one of the other actors), AND Jonathan Pryce, who thanked me for my card, and then Kenneth and Jonathan invited me to join their group at the private bar for the actors, directors and writers upstairs. I did so knowing I'd be a geek but a geek with a REALLY GREAT MEMORY, and whom should I ALSO be introduced to up in the bar but the playwright Harold Pinter and his wife Lady Antonia Fraser.

That was a magic night. I left at about midnight, walked across a bridge over The Thames; it was a rare perfectly clear starry night. I stood at the apex of the bridge; to my left was Parliament and to my right was St. Paul's Cathedral, both centuries old, both backlit against that starry sky. Although I was still sad about leaving the next day, I knew my visit was in some sense complete.

Pretty neat, huh?

A-Jock
 
I haven't been very spontaneous lately...but I can tend to be. The only thing is with me it's like one day I feel like buy a different car so I do. I traded in my old car for a newer Honda in about one hour's worth of thought (I know, I know....slow down Brandi, right?) I do lots of boring spontaneous stuff. Maybe it's time to get really crazy...}(
 
LOL! jes.........now 'THATS" just discussting........ haha

About time I bought meself a little oll" truck me thinks - great idea!

Marion

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Last September my DH and I spontaneously decided to sky dive! We'd never even talked about the topic in the 20+ years we've known each other! He just asked me "did I wanna?" and we did! Whatta nut!
~Kim
 
RE: What is the most spontaneous thing you've ever done...

Brandi,

That sounds like my DH!! He came home about 2 years ago on his lunch break with a 96 Mustang convertable. He handed over the finance papers and said "Look what I bought". He saw it on the lot. Took it for a test drive and purchased it. This entire transaction must of been a whole 15 minutes!! We are both spur of the moment people!! VERY DANGEROUS..lol!!

Aila:)
 
My husband and I were on our way to the mall one Saturday morning and we stopped in a corner market to get coffee for the trip. Coming out of the store I looked across the street to a used car lot and saw a Jeep Cheroke on the lot. I walked over, looked at it, a salesperson came out and asked if I wanted to test drive it, I went around the block and bought it! I don;t know what it was but I was "drawn" to that car!
 
I'm a control freak planner too. My dh is slooooooowly weaning me.

It is very difficult for me to let go.

My husband is a University of Utah alum and has been having a great time this year. The football team was phenomenal and won a spot in the Fiesta bowl. It's a historical moment for the school and a great end to the perfect year for the team and my husband has been in heaven! We've been so poor, he hasn't been able to get to many of the games ever. This year he went to three and then we decided to go to the Bowl game.

We didn't even have tickets to the game!!!! We showed up, got tickets on the sidewalk outside and had a super view for only $50!!!

I was soooo nervous about not having seats, but I threw caution to the wind and followed my dh. I'm glad we did. It was a memorable game, a fun weekend and we will never forget it!!

Danna
 
Just had to pop back in on this thread!!

LOL!!

Keep the ideas coming,,,maybe some of us 'practical' girls can get some good ideas...and just pre-plan the episode}(
 
RE: What is the most spontaneous thing you've ever done...

I KNOW I was spontaneous in Cancun on spring break when I was in college. The problem is that I drank too many of those Tequila Slammer shots and can't remember;-) .

Aila:)
 
I've done too many spontaneous things that got me in trouble in the long run... one of which was to quit nursing school half way through and move across the country with a married personal trainer, who was training me... it was a passionate, crazy time - lasted six months, then I packed it up, came home and finished nursing school...and taht was several years back. Not one of my most "proud" moments.

My most recent spontaneous thing was to buy a Harley over the weekend for my 40th birthday present to myself. That's NOT been a mistake. I love riding.

I could post more, but then you might never respect me again... and I have turned over a new leaf since hitting 40....

I love the story about going to meet your DH in your coat and stockings, and sweating, and unable to take your coat off. I bet your DH was so disappointed he wasn't alone.

We have some daring ladies on this site, and men, I'm sure.
Lynn
 
Oh Lynn Girlfriend!

Dont let turning 40 change you! NOW is the time in your life when you are mature enough to do very "immature" things and not give a toss what anyone eles thinks.

Lovvvvvvvve the Harley idea............ohhhhhhh to rome free on that! Im jealous

And we will only NOT RESPECT you when you STOP sharring.........its all "give it up" on this forum.

Marion
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Marion, not giving a toss should be in your signature line i think!!!! great expression! now, speaking of givin it up, i know you have some more spontaneous moments.....spill!!

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I can't post the, er, X-rated stuff...let's just say it involved doing The Deed in a public place with someone I should not have been with...;-)

On a less lascivious note, I once dressed down my brand-new boss when he tried to double-cross me on the terms of a raise I'd received. He had only been working there for a week. I stormed into his office, slammed the door, and blasted him and his sleazy tactics out of the water. I remember returning to my office feeling shaken by my fury but also cleansed - I'd said everything there was to say. I thought I might be fired and that would be fine. The next day, he came crawling to me begging for forgiveness.}(
 
Wow Ladies! I lead a really dull life in comparison. I do have plenty of naughty tales and this isn't the appropriate site...so no spontaneous stories here.

A Harley Davidson!!! That is so cool! My cousin's name is Harley Davidson. (I doubt he's ever ridden one though.)

Shirley
 
I thought of something I could share with you guys..."the best spontaneous thing I ever did".

My now DH was passing by my desk at work and I stopped him, introduced myself and we started talking...two years later we were married.

I had already done the leg work. My best friend knew him and knew he was single. I had always admired him from afar and thought I would like to get to know him. I'm so glad I did this! To this day he gives me all the credit for taking the first step to our wonderful relationship.

I have single friends that are looking for relationships. I encourage them to be a little forward. A lot of guys are shy about approaching women, IMHO.
 

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