That's true, & we did discuss that as an option. I think she really was just trying to open my eyes--and she certainly succeeded.
She asked if there was a man in my life & when I told her yes she said you'd better sit down w/him tonight & have a long talk. You should've seen the look on my face! I was like yeah right, & I'll be eating smoke as he runs screaming from the room. I don't think either one of us is even close to being ready for something like this, & we're both pretty much at the point where if you don't do it now you won't do it at all.