My husband graduated from Virginia Tech. I went to Radford College, about 30 minutes from Tech for my first two years of college; I partied there and even attended some summer school classes there. Working as I have for architects and engineers, I know so many Va. Tech graduates, because of its wonderful architecture and engineering schools. I am broken hearted and am fearing that the names of some of the victims may be friends' children.
I'm speaking here, not in anger, but in frustration. Some, here and on TV, have said if they had children at Tech, they'd take them out immediately. I completely understand that feeling, but, please tell me, where is safer? A small high school in Littleton, CO? An elementary school in Scotland? A little Amish school in Pennyslvania? Your office in the World Trade Center? Or maybe, like friends of mine, in your own home with your family, on a bright sunny New Years Day?
Where are we absolutely safe? Gun control? Yes, I'm for it. But would it have stopped this guy today? I mean, if you're determined enough, you can learn how to make a bomb on the internet. The men who killed my friends and their children didn't bring any murder weapons with them. They made them from razors and knives they found in the house.
But, I'm not without hope. We have to live our lives. I refuse to act like a victim. As tempted as I am to crawl under a blanket and not come out, I just can't. Somehow, though, we MUST try figure out how these people turned into monsters.
Guys, it's been a rough day. Just hug your family really close tonight. I know I will.