CollinsMom
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Wow, I'm reeling... I'm sure you are too. You have gotten some great advice, so I will just offer my love and support! Snuggle that baby boy as much as you can.
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andtckrtoo
Cathlete
Janie - more thoughts and prayers your and your family's way (especially your Grandson - what a man to want to be there for you!) I'm with Nancy and Lorie who are saying that something is wrong. I hope you find out what.
lainiefig
Cathlete
Janie, more {{{HUGS}}} to you and to your sweet grandson. I'm glad at least that he was safe when it happened. It does seem really strange that this happened all of a sudden after years of marriage. It sounds like you did the right thing calling the police and I pray for peace and answers for you!
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Netta
Cathlete
Janie,
I feel so bad for you. ((((hugs)))) to you, and prayers. I remember when I was young, my Dad had too much to drink (very rare), and he pushed my mom down. I'll never forget it, though to my knowledge he never did anything like that again. They've been married for 50 some years and are pretty darned tight. This doesn't sound like a typical abuse case. Just know that we all care about you.
Jeanette
I feel so bad for you. ((((hugs)))) to you, and prayers. I remember when I was young, my Dad had too much to drink (very rare), and he pushed my mom down. I'll never forget it, though to my knowledge he never did anything like that again. They've been married for 50 some years and are pretty darned tight. This doesn't sound like a typical abuse case. Just know that we all care about you.
Jeanette
punka274
Cathlete
What an awful thing to go through,especially with your grandson in the house! Im sending hugs,prayers your way Janie! I hope your doing ok? I just couldn't imagine all the emotions you must be going through,after 16 yrs of marriage and this happens? Wow,Im so sorry! Agian,im sending you prayers!
And glad to hear that you have your family there to support with you.
{{{{{Janie}}}}}
And glad to hear that you have your family there to support with you.
{{{{{Janie}}}}}
buffettgirl
Cathlete
Oh Janie, I'm soooo very, very sorry for your trouble. I don't know what else I can do but offer my prayers. {{{Many, many HUGS}}} to you and your family.
Oh, Janie, I am so sorry! What a shock this is.
I'm so glad that you handled it the way that you did. Your and your grandson's safety were first and foremost. You are such a strong lady.
I can't imagine what you're going through; we're here, girly. Please know that my thoughts are with you.
Lots of ((((hugs)))).
I'm so glad that you handled it the way that you did. Your and your grandson's safety were first and foremost. You are such a strong lady.
I can't imagine what you're going through; we're here, girly. Please know that my thoughts are with you.
Lots of ((((hugs)))).
earlyexerciser
Cathlete
Sending more prayers and positive thoughts. We are thinking of you!
Jenn
Jenn
HipChick
Cathlete
Oh my goodness, Janie! I am SO shocked & saddened to hear this. You are one of the sweetest people on this forum. I'm so very glad you & your grandson are okay & I hope your husband gets the help he needs. I'm also glad you're reaching out & not keeping this bottled up inside. Sending you some hugs (((JANIE))) & letting you know I'll be thinking about you. Please keep us updated...
allwildgirl
Cathlete
Janie - I felt sickened when I read your post! I'm so sorry that this happened to you :-( I'm sending lots of hugs and remember that we're here whenever you need us!
materialsgirl
Cathlete
Oh my gosh, Janie! I am so incredibly sorry that this happened to you. I am just in shock. Like others have said, we are here if you need us. (((((HUGS)))))
Janie, you are such an incredibly strong and intelligent woman. First, I'm sending many hugs to you! As I was reading your post, I was simply mortified and as I continued reading how you promptly put your safety and your grandson's safety first by calling 911, which, unfortunately, too many women would not do, I was just in awe of your actions. Then you proceded to reach out to others to let them know that they should not accept this behavior from others and to realize that there is help out there. What an amazing woman you are! In your time of peril, you are reaching out to others. I'm so glad you have the wonderful support system that you have and that you will find out everything you need to know about his situation and the best way to continue your safety and well-being. As everyone has already said, please keep us updated. Many prayers are being sent to you, and your husband so he can get to the core of his issues and heal.
Hugs,
Bam
Hugs,
Bam
janiejoey
Cathlete
Thank you,
For all the support here.
As time goes on and I can think better, I'm realizing more and more that there is something wrong with Joey. It was so out of character for him to do this. He has been the best husband anyone could have. If I know him the way I do, he must be feeling distraught as much I am. Shame and disbelieve comes to mind and a feeling of worthlessness.
I'm going to be OK physically, but it is taking a toll on me mentally. When there is no communication, nothing can be resolved. I don't know what is going on in his head.
I found out he didn't call his family to bail him out of jail. I called them to get him out of there. If it was left to Joey, he would still be in there where I'm sure he thinks he should be. He should be with loving family that care and want the best for him. From there healing can begin.
He's such a proud man, and leaning so heavily on his children will be more than he can handle. I'm sure he feels that it should be the other way around and he has let his family down.
Oh you guys this is so sad, and it's tearing me up. I want the best for Joey and for myself, we are truly good together. With all my heart and soul I know things will be OK. They just have to be. With your good vibes, positiveness and prayers are way, would be so appreciated.
I don't want to be a negative force on the forum only a positive one. So I'm going to try to be as I was and continue on from day to day until everything is resolved. One step at a time.
I'll keep you posted, Thank you again for all your concerns and heartwarming hugs.
Janie
The idea is to die young as late as possible
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For all the support here.
As time goes on and I can think better, I'm realizing more and more that there is something wrong with Joey. It was so out of character for him to do this. He has been the best husband anyone could have. If I know him the way I do, he must be feeling distraught as much I am. Shame and disbelieve comes to mind and a feeling of worthlessness.
I'm going to be OK physically, but it is taking a toll on me mentally. When there is no communication, nothing can be resolved. I don't know what is going on in his head.
I found out he didn't call his family to bail him out of jail. I called them to get him out of there. If it was left to Joey, he would still be in there where I'm sure he thinks he should be. He should be with loving family that care and want the best for him. From there healing can begin.
He's such a proud man, and leaning so heavily on his children will be more than he can handle. I'm sure he feels that it should be the other way around and he has let his family down.
Oh you guys this is so sad, and it's tearing me up. I want the best for Joey and for myself, we are truly good together. With all my heart and soul I know things will be OK. They just have to be. With your good vibes, positiveness and prayers are way, would be so appreciated.
I don't want to be a negative force on the forum only a positive one. So I'm going to try to be as I was and continue on from day to day until everything is resolved. One step at a time.
I'll keep you posted, Thank you again for all your concerns and heartwarming hugs.
Janie
The idea is to die young as late as possible
http://www.picturetrail.com/janiejoey