I'm right there with you, girl! I accepted a job offer, thinking another one was dead, but then this other one came back to life and now I think they are going to present me with a job offer, too. I'm freaking out, myself! Let's freak out together! Aaaaaarrrrrggghhhhh! *running-around-waving-arms-madly-much-like-Johnny-Depp-in-Pirates-of-the-Caribbean*
This is the first time I've ever been in this predicament, and while it's a nice problem to have, I have already accepted the offer at Company #1. I hate backing out of something I have agreed to. There's nothing saying, yet, that I will, but this other opportunity is really really nice -- a little more $$$. But, Opportunity #1 comes with a nice year-end bonus. So, money-wise, I think both will end up being about the same. It's going to come down to a gut-check feeling. I don't want to make the wrong choice.
I think we both just need to calm down, breathe, and take this as far as it will go before we make a final decision. Go out there, meet with these folks, sell yourself, and see what happens. I will try to do the same.
If anyone else has any advice, I think we'd both love to hear it.