Linda, I'm August, formerly Eat-A-Chocolate-Bar-Every-Day. :7
I never, never ever thought I could get to a day when I didn't need a dessert after every meal.
There was no way going cold turkey would cut it for me, and sucking on a mint or hard candy after a meal... Nuh uh.
I still treat myself to stuff now and then, but I can FINALLY go days without eating a candy bar. In fact, I don't even remember the last time I had or even craved a candy bar now, which shocks the he!! out of me.
What broke me of the habit?
I must thank a wonderful woman named Mattea! She put out a "recipe" for a "healthy butterfinger," which was mashing up a date with some old-fashioned oats and organic peanut butter. I've got to say, it's totally delicious and I was able to completely substitute desserts with this. At first, I'd have several a day
. Then I was able to get down to a couple after dinner. Then I started leaving the oats out and just put a dab of organic peanut butter on a date. This did it for me.
Now I'll often have just a spoonful of organic peanut butter, or just a piece of fruit for dessert, and I feel totally satisfied. Man, I can't believe I wrote that! LOL.
Good luck, you'll get there!!
Oh, by the way, have you tried putting chocolate protein powder into tofu or yogurt? That's really yummy, and is totally desserty but good for you!