I had to laugh Bethany, at the image of you wearing your coat and gloves and it was only 61 degrees. I love the weather like this here! My grandmother is here from Colorado and she is cold. I always forget about the humidity making it colder for people. About working out, I think you need to do what you think is best. Listen to your body. When I first came off the Depo shot, I always thought the same thing about my weight being too low and thought maybe that was why I didn't get my periods for so long. Everyone kept telling me that I am too tiny and should put on some weight to get pregnant (but never my dr). I continued on working out and eating super good and the funny thing is is that my period's returned after going on BC for a few months. I still continued to work out and eat good and still got pregnant. Actually when I got my BFP I hadn't worked out consistently but I don't think that had anything to do with it. Unless you are skin and bones, I wouldn't be too concerned. If you are eating good and being healthy and not dieting, then stay with it. Your body will thank you after your second baby is born!
I'm glad you haven't had any crazy side effects from the Clomid, Melanie. I hope this works for you and you get your BFP.
About the m/c I was crampy and still bleeding yesterday but not as bad as Sunday. I was supposed to get my blood done yesterday and I drive to the lab and tell them that my dr was supposed to fax the orders Friday and the girl tells me they never received them. I was so frustrated! I finally called my dr's office later in the afternoon and the girl in the office says she was still looking for the fax number to the lab! Really!? I could have looked it up and given it to you! So they claim that they were going to fax the orders yesterday so I guess I am going to try and go this morning to get my blood done. But now I won't get the results until after Christmas. I'm not having any one sided pain so I guess that is good. If they do an ultrasound and not everything is gone from uterus or tube then I think they might do a D & C because it still could be dangerous for me and my tubes. But with the amount of blood and stuff I've been passing, I can't imagine that there is a whole lot left in there. I trust that my body has taken care of it. I just want to get back to normal. How long did you bleed after your D & C if you don't mind?
I'm doing fine emotionally and it does kind of suck (for lack of better terms) that this is happening around Christmas but I keep telling my DH it's because we will be holding our little one next Christmas and it will wipe away all these sad memories.
Well, grandma is here and mom and I are taking her to lunch and antique shopping so that should be fun. I hope you ladies have a wonderful day! I hope you guys aren't working and can enjoy the holiday!
Jen
It's amazing what one can do when they "shut down". I"m doing much better,...but I won't lie to you,...it was the WORST thing that has ever happened to me. *sigh*, it gets better with time.