Hi Sham –
I’m 5’3” and considered petite. What I did was keep track of my calorie intake for 7 days. That included my cheating on the weekends so I could get an average daily calorie intake because I definitely eat more on the weekends. My results came up to 1800 calories/day. I subtracted 300 calories from that number and came up with 1500 calories. So now I’ve been trying to eat 1500 calories a day.
Experts say to lose a pound you must expend 3500 calories. If I can make a deficit in my calorie intake by 300 and another 200 through exercise that equals a 500-calorie/day deficit. And in 7 days that equals 3500 calories or 1 lb.
Basically figure out what your daily average caloric intake is and try to decrease that amount by 200-300 calories per day. It really works for me. I even allow myself treats during the day now like a cookie or a piece of chocolate or whatever. The best thing that has worked for me is staying within my 1500 calorie limit and eating everything in moderation. I definitely believe in eating a healthy, low-saturated fat diet consisting of veggies, fruits, good carbs, and lean meats. But I also believe for sanity’s sake and just for pure pleasure that you should allow yourself a few treats. I know when I’ve tried to eat very cleanly during the week that it ends up to be disastrous for me on the weekends. Everyone is different and I’m sure most people have more willpower than I do so this works for me. Now that I have taken limits off all foods I crave them less. Does that make sense?