LauraMax
Cathlete
your boss sexually harasses you on a regular basis? (yeah I know, another weird guy story from Laura)
The mayor here, who is 20 years older than I am, hits on me pretty much every day. I always try to blow him off in a nice way b/c unfortunately he has total control over any salary increases and/or promotions I might get in the future.
He's been making inappropriate comments since pretty much the day I started. Then he started dating this girl--and I call her a girl b/c she's younger than me, meaning he's dating someone 25 years younger than him--from Germany. Now, this guy has a heck of a lot of money, & she went back to Germany more than a year ago to live in a house he bought while he pays her bills, gives her start up money for a business, etc. etc. IMO it's pretty clear she's using him for money & the dumba$$ has no idea. He thinks he's the most eligible bachelor in my town, & I'm not making that up--he's actually said it to me several times. As far as I'm concerned he's a flabby old dude who I have absolutely no interest in dating.
Anyway, he's finally gotten tired of her refusing to come back to the US (he goes to Germany once a month or so) & is breaking up w/her. The inappropriate comments have increased to the extent that I've started a log, & believe me, I have an entry every day. Last week he touched my rear end & told me I looked like I gained some weight & the view from behind was really nice. Monday night he told me to "keep warm" for him (whatever the heck that means), & I finally told him I couldn't think of a more inappropriate relationship. He told me he liked inappropriate relationships. I told him I had a career to consider. His response was, "oh don't worry, I'll make sure you have a career."
At this point I am so uncomfortable every time I see him I try to hide before he snags me. I'm afraid to tell him to leave me alone b/c I don't want to hurt his feelings, plus I don't want it to affect my career. I'm afraid not to tell him to leave me alone b/c I can't keep working under these conditions.
I've talked to my friends & even one coworker about this & no one seems to have anything productive to tell me, other than "EWWWW" and "what a pig!" So I'm asking you guys, any advice?
The mayor here, who is 20 years older than I am, hits on me pretty much every day. I always try to blow him off in a nice way b/c unfortunately he has total control over any salary increases and/or promotions I might get in the future.
He's been making inappropriate comments since pretty much the day I started. Then he started dating this girl--and I call her a girl b/c she's younger than me, meaning he's dating someone 25 years younger than him--from Germany. Now, this guy has a heck of a lot of money, & she went back to Germany more than a year ago to live in a house he bought while he pays her bills, gives her start up money for a business, etc. etc. IMO it's pretty clear she's using him for money & the dumba$$ has no idea. He thinks he's the most eligible bachelor in my town, & I'm not making that up--he's actually said it to me several times. As far as I'm concerned he's a flabby old dude who I have absolutely no interest in dating.
Anyway, he's finally gotten tired of her refusing to come back to the US (he goes to Germany once a month or so) & is breaking up w/her. The inappropriate comments have increased to the extent that I've started a log, & believe me, I have an entry every day. Last week he touched my rear end & told me I looked like I gained some weight & the view from behind was really nice. Monday night he told me to "keep warm" for him (whatever the heck that means), & I finally told him I couldn't think of a more inappropriate relationship. He told me he liked inappropriate relationships. I told him I had a career to consider. His response was, "oh don't worry, I'll make sure you have a career."
At this point I am so uncomfortable every time I see him I try to hide before he snags me. I'm afraid to tell him to leave me alone b/c I don't want to hurt his feelings, plus I don't want it to affect my career. I'm afraid not to tell him to leave me alone b/c I can't keep working under these conditions.
I've talked to my friends & even one coworker about this & no one seems to have anything productive to tell me, other than "EWWWW" and "what a pig!" So I'm asking you guys, any advice?