So Discoraged,Need your help

mari27

Cathlete
[font size="1" color="#FF0000"]LAST EDITED ON Mar-06-02 AT 10:50AM (Est)[/font][p]Hi Everyone,
Here is my situation I had a baby six weeks ago and I weighed in at 230 pounds before the birth since then I lost 28 pounds leaving me at 202.
I since then have started eating healthy only veggies and fruits no junk food at all.And have started working out and I am not losing an ounce.
Why is that I never had a problem losing weight before Why is this happening and is it normal?
this is my 3rd baby and it feels like my body is hanging on to the fat.
Please Help,
Marisol
 
What are you eating, Marisol? Only veggies and fruit can't nourish your body the way it needs to be nourished! You need to eat carbohydrates in the form of cereal, whole grain rice, pasta, oats. You need calcium from soy milk and cow's milk and broccoli. You need lean protein like skinless chicken, lean beef, fish. If you do not consume enough calories, your body will become convinced that you are starving and will hold on to your fat stores by slowing down your metabolsim!

These are two websites that might help. Use the first to determine a sensible number of calories for you to eat each day to promote the safe loss of 1 to 2 pouds per week. Use the second to keep track of your food intake and exercise output.

http://www.dietitian.com/ibw/ibw.html
http://www.fitday.com

To lose one pound, you need to burn off or eliminate a total of 3500 calories. If you work out for 45 minutes or so and reduce your caloric intake by several hundred calories a day, you should see a pound or so loss per week.

Be patient! A sensible diet and a workout program are all that's necessary for losing the weight. You can do it!



Bobbi http://www.plauder-smilies.de/chicken.gif Chicks Rule!
 
I actually am eating a well balanced diet.
I joined weight watchers about 3 weeks ago anf I am following the points system.
I guess my question is I sit normal for my weight loss to come to a halt because of my pregancy.
bobbi werent you the one that has 3 babies and gained 43 pounds.
If so please tell me there is hpoe in getting this weight off and if so how long if they tell me to wait 9 mos. I will wait I will be happy just to see a 1 pound weight loss but right now all my hard work and nada.
Do you think the lack of sleep could be effecting my progress.
 
Marisol, lack of sleep can be very detrimental to progress because it's very stressful and stress produces cortisol which again has a direct affect on fat storage. Also, if you are worried and focusing in on your lack of progress, that can make it even more stressful!

Be encouraged. Since your diet is good and you are exercising, you should start to see results.
As strange as this sounds, Marisol, if you have to choose between sleeping and exercising, choose sleep if Serena is waking you alot at night. If you can, sleep when she does. I know having 3 can make that difficult!

I would recommend giving yourself two to four weeks of not weighing in. Eat right, continue to exercise and try to get as much sleep as possible. Give yourself pep talks. You are doing the right things. The weight will come off. You just had a baby and that's a big thing! Your body goes through so much, growing another human being. Then after the time has passed, check your weight. My guess is you will have dropped. If not, see your doctor, have your hormones or thyroid checked.

Also, Marisol, are you familiar with Donna, who posts in the forums? She started out at over 300 pounds and is at about 200 now. She has hit some plateaus, I know. Look at her posts. She posts as gettinfit@38. She may be able to give you some advice that will help. Hang in there! You will lose the weight. Try to relax and focus and it will all come together!

Bobbi http://www.plauder-smilies.de/chicken.gif Chicks Rule!
 
Thank you it's so nice to have my sisters in fitness.
I don't know what I would do without you gals
 
We are all in this together! New babies are so wonderful but it's also hard to face life with those pregnancy pounds once the baby is born. You are doing a great job, Marisol! It's a tough balancing act. Just take it one day at a time!

My third child was an awful baby! He slept in the crook of my arm for the first six months of his life. He cried every time he was put down. I was so exhausted! Now he is 4 and sleeps all night. Up until last year he visited me every night. What is your exercise program?

Bobbi http://www.plauder-smilies.de/chicken.gif Chicks Rule!
 
I have all of Cathe's videos.
I was doing CXT and I gained the weight remember in my last post I gained 1 pound but I know it might be muscle.
My husband is great he gives me my 1 hour at night so I can workout and he watches all 3 and puts the older ones to bed.
I wanted more of a challenge so I started doing a cathe step(rythmic step,powermax etc.) and kickboxing workout of course all with modifications.
It will be 6 weeks this Friday and am looking foward to my MD's o.k so I can let loose I am ready to go no more modifications. Exercise gives me so much energy and makes me feel so much better.
What can I say I am an endorphin Junky(hope I spelled it right)
And it must be something about that third child because Serena also cries whenever I place her down.I don't mind considering she is my last baby.
Once again Thanks
 
Hi Marisol :)

Listen~don't even fret a moment about not losing weight! You already have the ONLY thing you really need: the desire!

Weight Watchers is cool, but don't get hung up on "exact" calories/points each day, it will only defeat you in the long run. I keep a food journal to document EVERY piece of food I put in my mouth, and I have tried every calorie combination from 1400 cal/day, to staggering calories up and down 1500-1800 cal/day (which by the way really did seem to "trick" my metabolism), and I found that by tracking my food and calories, when I looked back at my most successful weeks (amount of weight /inches lost), I lost more pounds and/or inches on the weeks I went over my planned caloric intake! My most successful losses came the weeks I actually ate approx. 1800-1900 cal/day! That taught me that not only is it true, "you have to eat to lose weight!", but that I had to turn a deaf ear to all the propaganda that says, "eating 1200-1500 cal/day is what I needed to lose weight!" Girl, I was starving! You do not get to be 375lbs and not LOVE food! :) I still love food, but through this forum I have learned how to love food that will love me back, so now I eat when my body dictates. Some days it only wants 1400 calories (usually Sunday, my yoga/stretch day), but others it may call for 1900 calories EASY! Especially during my S&H rotation! But the point is (despite my babbling :)), do not get hung up on numbers (scale) and how fast they do or don't fall. I know it's hard not to, but just concentrate on your workouts, and as your strength increases, your stamina (during cardio) increases and you're just feeling so doggone good, that's when you know it's working for you, and the numbers will eventually cooperate! It really is all about how you feel, and remember, it takes a while after you have a baby for your body to adjust. I believe it was Cathe who said to another poster, "it takes 9 months up, and 9 months down!" So relax, stop focusing on the numbers, and if you can force yourself to do this, DO NOT WEIGH YOURSELF FOR 30 DAYS! Put your eyes back in your head Marisol, that's right, 30 days! Keep working out, if you can manage 5 days of cardio and at least work each body part 2x/week with either PS Series or CTX, in 30 days you will see your numbers have fallen. At 200 lbs, 5 days of cardio turns us into a fat burning machine! I recently hit a plateau, so for the next 6 weeks I am going to do 6 days of cardio and see where it lands me, but at 200lbs, I may still be fat, but d--m if I'm not the fittest fat person in Fayetteville PA! Thanks to Cathe, I have more energy and stamina then my 17 year old daughter and most of her teenage friends! Now that's something the scale doesn't measure!
So enjoy your babies, and eat healthfully, and remember, points are cool as long as you aren't going hungry and depriving yourself, and keep working out, and stay away from the scale for 30 days, and I'll look for your post on April 6 (it's a Sat) saying, "Donna, you were right, I stayed away from the scale and when I weighed in today I lost - #'s"
If I can be any help, let me know :)
Donna
 
Donna,

I really have nothing to add or say, but just wanted to let you know that your post was inspirational and informative.
 
Donna,
You are such a great person! I know you've heard this a lot, but I just love reading your posts. You really have a way with words, and even with all your babbling ;-) (just quoting you!), you make such sense. I'm truly glad you joined this forum.
Have a lovely day!
Wendy
 
RE: Yep!!

YES! I LOVE THIS FORUM!
I check it EVERYDAY, and Tuesday was the first time I wasn't able to get to the computer (out of town visit), and I tell you I thought I was going through some sort of "Cathe forum withdrawal" or something! As soon as we returned home the first thing I did Wednesday was log on immediately to the forum! :)
And my hubby says, "Aaawwwww, did you miss your friends?" And I said, "yeah! I did miss them!"
I will always contribute my weightloss/fitness success to Cathe (her style is a personal motivation for me daily!) and this forum. I hit so many emotional plateaus, and each and every time, you guys were there for me~giving me words of wisdom, educating me on the "do's and don'ts" and just allowing me to feel your emotional support.
And I have a feeling my toughest days are ahead of me. Believe it or not, I think the first 175lbs are going to turn out to be the easiest lbs lost, I think it's going to be these last 60-70lbs (not sure of where my final weight will take me?) that are going to be the toughest fight of my life! And I feel so supported by this forum. My hubby is wonderful, but he doesn't understand how I feel about my body and where I want to take it! He doesn't truly understand the frustrations of making healthy food choices vs eating that pint of "ben & jerry's" before bedtime! But you guys do! And I love you for it~and I love this forum! (okay~too much mush for 6am!):)
THIS FORUM IS THE GREATEST!
Donna
 
This may be something to try...

Marisol, I am on WW too. When I hit a mini-plateau I did the Wendi Plan. If you look on the WW website forum you will find details about it. Basically what you do is alternate hi end and low end points with one day (using banked points) going 10 points over the hi end. The first week I did that I lost 2.4 lbs! Now I have been eating low one day and hi the next. They tell you to always eat at the hi end to be sure you are satisfied, but sometimes you need to keep your body guessing and it shakes up the metabolism.

Hope this helps,
susan
 
Donna when I grow up I want to be just like you.
WOW what an inspiration you are my hero.
Thank you I truly feel encouraged.
Marisol
 
RE: This may be something to try...

Funny thing I was just thinking about going up on the points last night because I have been going to the low end only I will try that and keep you posted
 
Hi Donna,
I just had to add my cheers to the others...I always love reading your posts & truly respect the commitment you've made. I'm so proud of the success you've had, but even more for your refusal to ever give up.
Marisol, you hang in there & just keep doing what you know is right...the losses will come. (And the gains...muscle, energy, self esteem, etc.)
With your determination & the help of people like Donna & Bobbi, you WILL WIN!
Ruth
:)
 

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