BeethovenRocks
Cathlete
Shared joy is double joy. Shared sorrow is half sorrow. I'm glad I can share with you today. I am sorry for your loss.
Remembering my Sister
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queenmaynie
Cathlete
Chastity, I understand how you are feeling today. The 10 year anniversary of my beautiful son is approaching and my family and I are also experiencing a realm of emotion. Every day is difficult, as you know, but milestones are especially hard to handle.
Through the years I have done all I can to make my son proud of me. He has two surviving triplet brothers ( now 15&1/2) and a younger brother (12) and my DH and I encourage them to live their lives to the fullest. Mostly because we know how quickly life can change from one second to the next, as I'm sure you know as well. You have obviously embraced that same mantra and have done so well to keep your sister close to your heart.
One thing I can share is that every once in a while I allow myself what I call a "pity party" day. I do exactly what you did this morning and just allow myself to feel the pain. Most days I have learned to go to a different place in order to survive. But once in a while I think it is good to acknowledge the pain that can build up and become unbearable. I know in the next two weeks I will need one of those days myself.
I will be praying for you. Hang in there and know that your sister is undoubtedly proud of and shining all of her love on you now and always.
Through the years I have done all I can to make my son proud of me. He has two surviving triplet brothers ( now 15&1/2) and a younger brother (12) and my DH and I encourage them to live their lives to the fullest. Mostly because we know how quickly life can change from one second to the next, as I'm sure you know as well. You have obviously embraced that same mantra and have done so well to keep your sister close to your heart.
One thing I can share is that every once in a while I allow myself what I call a "pity party" day. I do exactly what you did this morning and just allow myself to feel the pain. Most days I have learned to go to a different place in order to survive. But once in a while I think it is good to acknowledge the pain that can build up and become unbearable. I know in the next two weeks I will need one of those days myself.
I will be praying for you. Hang in there and know that your sister is undoubtedly proud of and shining all of her love on you now and always.
exercise forever
Cathlete
Chasity, I am so sorry for your loss. Your sister was a beautiful person. The tears started flowing and I couldn't stop! My heart goes out to you and thanks for sharing your remembrance with us.
kim
kim
>Hugs to you Chastity. We recently lost a dear friend to
>cancer, everyday I swear I hear his laugh, his voice in
>everything I do. I talk to him and ask him what heaven is
>like, share jokes with him and try to remember all the good
>times. Other times I sit and cannot believe he isn't here
>physically anymore, it really hurts.
>
>I think taking your sweet doggies out for a walk and "being"
>with Heather today in the beautiful sunshine would be a great
>idea.
>Please know there are many people here who are so wonderful
>and supportive here, please post anytime you want or need
>to.
You keep him alive. He must have been very special .
jordan
>cancer, everyday I swear I hear his laugh, his voice in
>everything I do. I talk to him and ask him what heaven is
>like, share jokes with him and try to remember all the good
>times. Other times I sit and cannot believe he isn't here
>physically anymore, it really hurts.
>
>I think taking your sweet doggies out for a walk and "being"
>with Heather today in the beautiful sunshine would be a great
>idea.
>Please know there are many people here who are so wonderful
>and supportive here, please post anytime you want or need
>to.
You keep him alive. He must have been very special
.jordan
kaylasmom321
Cathlete
Ok, I'm crying, now, too. I'm sorry for you and everyone that has lost a loved one. The site is beautiful, and so was your sister. I hope you relaxed and enjoyed your time with the doggies. Pets do sometimes have a 6th sense about when we need tlc. I remember that about my dog growing up. Take care, Nancy J.~~
gogigi
Cathlete
Chastity,
I'm so glad you posted here. What a beautiful memorial site. I am so sorry that you have suffered this loss. I will pray that you are overwhelmed with love and a special peace today.
Angela
P.S. I love the picutre from the beach where the two children are laying in the water and looking at one another. Adorable.
I'm so glad you posted here. What a beautiful memorial site. I am so sorry that you have suffered this loss. I will pray that you are overwhelmed with love and a special peace today.
Angela
P.S. I love the picutre from the beach where the two children are laying in the water and looking at one another. Adorable.
chastity,
I know what you are going thru. I to lost my sister,she was only 15 from a car /train accident.I miss her eacha nd every day but i know that she would want me to go on and I feel like she is watching over me and my children. I always say that she is our guardian angel. I hope you feel better and remember she lives on in your heart.
I know what you are going thru. I to lost my sister,she was only 15 from a car /train accident.I miss her eacha nd every day but i know that she would want me to go on and I feel like she is watching over me and my children. I always say that she is our guardian angel. I hope you feel better and remember she lives on in your heart.