I posted a question on 9 April to Cathe entitled, "Skinny as a Rail but Flabby Abs." I received two replies from people with similar concerns but have yet to hear from Cathe. I've been working out since 1987 (mostly Firm, till Cathe 1 1/2 yrs ago). I do weights 2-3x/wk, cardio 2-3x/wk, plus power yoga and a little pilates. After doing a search for "ectos," I came upon an interesting thread started by Amadeus in July of 2002 where it seemed all respondants had my body type! (I'm 5'9", 125 lbs.) I know that I'm an ecto, (hard-gainer) but I didn't realize a classic "symptom" of this body type included flabby abs. Anyway, since this has always been a problem for me (even prior to having 3 children), my questions are: 1) Have any of you had any luck reducing fat on and firming up your midsection? 2) If so, how did you do it and did you get thinner elsewhere? (something I don't want!) 3) How do you eat? I eat three large meals a day, snacking healthily in between. I almost always have a bowl of ice cream at night or something else sweet. I find that if I don't do this, I lose weight. I've read about increasing healthy caloric intake while keeping your diet clean, but that seems like it would mean eating even more. I'm an "everything in moderation" person and since I'm already too thin, I don't feel I need to deprive myself. Thanks in advance for any help!