PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION: SEPTEMBER "SCHOOL DAYS"

Hey Stacy-
hope you are feeling better about things. I would advise not to make the cookies until you are in a better place, mentally. I have already eaten three and a half of them. The recipe only made 15 cookies and used 14T. of butter so I think you can do the math ;)
As for jeans, I had some really good luck at Maurice's. Do you have those stores there? They have some really low price point jeans (like $29) that are made for us curvier girls that fit me really well, and are super comfy, and CUTE! Also, I got a pricier pair (Silver brand) that were like $79 but they also fit great. I have an impossible time finding jeans, with my short, thick legs (nothing fits over my KNEES!), chunky butt, and tiny waist. Seriously, my legs are size 10-12, my butt is at least an 8, and my waist is a 4. It is sooo depressing. Your post reminded me of being in a dressing room the week after my Dad passed away, trying on clothes, and there were two teenage girls in the next space, chattering and modeling all kinds of tiny things, and I DID cry. Just sat there and bawled. Nothing fit me, I wanted to strangle those girls, and I was an emotional wreck anyway...*sigh* and this was when I was literally a size 4 all over, just have one of those hard to fit bods. Dressing rooms are just evil. Also, if you can find Lucky Brand Easy Rider jeans on ebay or somewhere, I don't think they make them anymore to buy new, but they fit our shape pretty well and are pretty cute, not terribly mom-jeanish.

Just finished a long dogwalk and Stretch Max with the resistance band, feeling really good! It's funny, just in the past week it seems everything has become easier. Squats, especially. I used to feel like my form was bad, like they strained my shins in a strange way, and didn't know why...I'm thinking the muscles I needed to use to do them correctly were not strong enough, or the balance of strength in my legs was off (very likely, I have HUGE quads) but just recently, they became very "natural" to do. My abs, I am feeling an actual "wall" of muscle in there, it's pretty cool, even Rich could feel it. Like a steel curtain :) Cardio is easier too. The really tough huffing and puffing parts that used to feel like I was dying, now they are energizing. This is awesome! I'm going to change my closet over from summer to cool weather clothes tonight and tomorrow, and am happy thinking about how everything is going to fit (be too big?) when I pull it back out again next spring :)

Peng, hope we hear from you again soon!
FnV, you too!
 
Andrea, thanks for the kind words. I'm not sure if we have Maurice's here, will have to check. I've tried a few Lucky brand and wasnt so "lucky". Congrats on the "steel curtain".

I did my new JM Kickboxing workout, it has three 20 min workouts so I did all 3. And, no worries on the cookies, was too lazy to go shopping for anything!

Hello to Peng and FnV :)
 
I did the laundry, baked cookies for tomorrow, and made dinner but no workout, until Hubby wanted to go for an evening walk. He's full of surprises this week! We went 1.25miles around the neighborhood. April was thrilled!

Andrea, your cookies sound amazing. Glad you liked the workout. Steel Curtain, I like it. good for you!

Stacy, I'm sorry you had such problems with the jeans. I don't wear them well either, they either gap at the waist or ar too tight elsewhere. I find pants {dress or khakis} are a better option. and I have to get bootcut because my belly and calves are my problem areas I hope you like the workouts.
 
Thought for the day- The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

Stacy, were you upset about finding jeans or upset about how you feel about your body, which is impossible to ignore while trying on jeans?

Andrea, congrats on the changes, maybe its time to step it up again (LIC?)

Peng, I think walks are good for the mind, too.

No w/o for me today or yesterday, have to do a tough long one on Thurs. I would like to express my discomfort with the posting of explicit and gory details of sugar and butter and white flour abuse; kinda like keeping the focus on recovery rather than details of the binge. kwim? That is my philosophy and I hate to push it on to everyone, but I figured you deserved to know how I felt. And now I apologize for the judgmental tone.

Gee, between being blunt, judgmental and sarcastic, I sound just like my dad. If I throw in something about the world coming to an end I can be my mom, too.
 
I got the whole wheat bread started today. I'm not sure the idea of starting it on my early day will work. I have to mix it before I'm really awake. who knows what I put in there?:p Off to get ready for Bible study.

Faith, we do tend to take after our parents whether we want to or not!
 
oh FnV...you made me laugh out loud. Sorry about the food porn. Like i said, not something i do very much so point taken :)
thinking about cardio and weights today and maybe i go ahead and put LIC on the agenda for Friday?

Peng, i treasure my walks! they are so relaxing i'm almost in a trance sometimes by the end, as are my dogs. so awesome.
 
Cardio and Weights and a three mile dogwalk done for the day! Now I need to do laundry, attempt to make my nails presentable (I swear I have the world's worst nails) and off to get my hairs cut.

Taking remainder of cookies to my hairdresser for her hubby and child to enjoy :) Rich thought they were just "OKAY". He has no sweet tooth...must be why he's 6'4", 165 lbs....
 
No workout today, kinda sore from yesterday's kickbox fest. Plan on working out Thurs morning before work.

Andrea, how did C&W go??? I'm with FnV, maybe time to up the ante on your workouts now!

Peng, nice that hubby suggested the walk, much easier than dragging them out of the house!

FnV, I was just in a general crabby mood yesterday with shopping, partly b/c fitting room mirrors are not forgiving and also b/c I walk thru the mall and see practically everyone in all different shapes and sizes wearing jeans so I'm like why is it next to impossible for ME to find some? Am I THAT deformed???? I'm over that today but yesterday was just one of those moments!! I totally get you on the food comments. Is it more a personal thing for you or the fact that we shouldnt complain about things when we arent perfecting our diet?? I'm not trying to sound judgmental either. I'd just hate to lose you in our group, but if we're having a negative impact on you obviously we dont want that! I love your blunt attitude. Your comments echo in my mind alot and help me when I'm contemplating eating something that isnt good for me! And what does "kwim" mean? I'm having a DUH moment!!
 
I did 40min of Kettlebells ~ AOS Empire State, I used my 20, 25 but not the 35!

Then Hubby wanted to go for a 30min walk. Having April <--- pull me along helped! phew.

Stacy, glad you are in a better frame of mind. I hate shopping and buy most of my clothes at Ross; I like that the clothes are seperated by size and I'm not digging through them all to find my size. KWIM = know what I mean?

Andrea, being so addicted to sweets as I am, I can't understand people who aren't, but that does mean more for me!
 
Again, sorry about posting about the things which shall not be mentioned! Mostly, being a lab scientist, I was intrigued by the science behind the process of making them, I thought it was interesting, and I am a firm believer in moderation. I wasn't trying to be a bad influence, and I'm hoping that my positivity outweighs any negative stuff I might have brought forth!

C&W is tough but definitely do-able for me, just need to take a couple laps around the basement before starting weight work after the cardio. I was supposed to do Body Fusion so I'm kicking it up a notch already, but am going to take a stab at LIC on Friday.

I appreciate each of you ladies! You are all very inspiring to me.

I do hear ya Stacy on the seeing people of all shapes and sizes that can find jeans, am I that deformed, etc. I've had the exact same thought about jeans and myself and being deformed/odd/whatever. In addition: I can't find sunglasses that don't move around on my face every time I smile because my cheeks move them. Why can the rest of the world wear sunglasses? Also, when I had longer hair, I can't wear those elastic headbands everyone wears because 1. My hair is too thin to weigh them down and/or 2. The back of my head is just too blankety blank flat because they would *POP* off my head. MADE ME SOOOO MAD!

Don't know the answer, just know you gotta find something to love about yourself and move on. We love ya.
 
Andrea, was laughing about your headband troubles....I cant wear them for the same 2 reasons, lol :) LIC is Low Impact Circuit right?? If so I love that one! I tend to do the upper body/cardio premix more than the actual workout to give my knees a break.

Peng, your KB workout sounds awesome. I actually have AOS Providence but havent done it yet.

Forgot to mention I had a yummy dinner. Roasted chicken, and tossed in some carrots, onions and brussel sprouts with some fresh rosemary. The house smelled great!

Ok folks, back to Laundry Max...
 
Stacy, you should try AOS! I have the KBW 1 version, but its the same thing. Empire State has a shuffle option that I like, so each workout is 'new'. If Mary at TFDVD has a sale soon I really want Newport, which I'm sure would kill me. These are the workouts I use the most with my kbells.

Andrea, You and Hubby would get along great in the kitchen. He likes to help me cook and is always asking my WHY I do things {big discussion about why I give the flour a minute to cook in the pan before I add something else}. I'm just happy its in the directions so I do it! I don't really care why. He cares and wants to know the reasons, how things work, why things work, and the chemical reactions. We used to watch Good Eats with Alton Brown and that's what started this!
 
Peng- Alton Brown! My hubby and I used to watch him religiously. Good information! Cooking is really just chemistry!

Stacy- of course those headbands don't work for you. We are twins.

UGh. BAAAAD night of tossing and turning, allergies are killing me, but still got up at 0445, popped a migraine pill, and headed downstairs to tackle the beginner Low Impact Step. Got through the first cardio and part of the first intensity blast, and just couldn't go on. Went straight to the cool down and spent a few quality minutes with my doggies before heading off to work this morning. Headache is gone, and I did burn 174 calories, so at least I gave it a shot. Highly doubtful it's going to be a good day at work, LOL.

Yall have a good one.
 
So its 50* outside and I'm scrambling though the house trying to turn off the ceiling fans as I turn on lights. Brrr! I usually wake up hot but today woke a bit chilly. Bible study this morning, then lunch with my parents, and Knit Night tonight. I hope to squeeze in some Classical Stretch later.

Faith, I don't want to cause you any added stress so I'll keep the bread making comments to a minimum. We are here to support and encourage each other after all. :D {we need a heart smiley, we have sarcasm with roll-eyes but not love}

Andrea, good for you for at least attempting your workout. I'm glad the headache is gone. Hope your day is better than you expect.
 
I cant say my feeling werent hurt by your comments FnV. I solely came here to vent off a bit of frustration b/c I find this an open and understanding forum/thread. I never said I'd kill myself nor did I eat a single cookie. After posting, I actually felt better and proceeded to workout for an hour and then ate a salad for dinner. I will apologize if anything I said was offensive to anyone and I will do my best to try to put a more positive spin on things I have to say. But if this thread starts to become a place where I have to watch everything I say, then I dont think this is the place for me anymore.

I did a new DeltaFit workout this morning, now it's shower time.
 
Wow. Just Wow.

Two things...
1. This is "Progress not Perfection"
2. You. Only. Live. Once.

^^^Okay, I'm editing this but not taking this part out because it's how I feel. We are not here to be perfect, we are imperfect people who sometimes do things others don't like or agree with. Part of the challenge of getting through life, through every single day, is coming across people who challenge your patience and finding the beauty in each of those people. Because it is there.

I am sorry my mention of my recipe was the last straw. I honestly don't pay that much attention to what other people are making, because what sounds good to me is what I eat, and what other people are eating is really never any concern of mine, and I'm very rarely tempted. I just knew that I had worked my butt off for the past six weeks, spent a month organizing my recipes, and made something that quite frankly meant a lot to me...it wasn't a guilty pleasure, it wasn't "oooh, I'm being BAAAAAD!" It was a recipe that greatly intrigued me and turned out very well. it was cookies. I eat them sometimes, not very often, but sometimes because I enjoy all kinds of things, in moderation. I drink beer a couple of times a month. Used to be a couple a day. That comment about the cigarette? Maybe I have an issue with that! Thankfully, not any more. I was a smoker for almost 20 years, had my last one Sept. 12, 2011. Yep, just over a year ago. I wanted to get on here and celebrate that when I hit my year mark but something told me that might be frowned upon. Well, I'm proud of myself for that so I'm telling yall now.

FnV- I am sorry you don't like to read what some of us post sometimes, but we're gonna keep doing it because it helps us and is part of who we are as people. At least I am. To ask us to stop being ourselves is frankly a little mean. I am a little taken aback by what you wrote about Stacy and killing herself with cookies. She was having a bad day and looked up my recipe. It's not as dramatic as you think. I really do value your opinion and I know you put an incredible amount of effort into making the best choices when it comes to what you put into your body, and I really admire you for that. We are all just not at that level. Speaking for myself, I've tried, but it's just not sustainable for me. And I have found I just really don't enjoy life when I'm scrutinizing everything to pieces.

Peng- I love that we are very different but seem to have a lot in common at the same time. Keep making your bread. Do what makes your heart sing because really, we do only live once.

Stacy- what would I do without you here, my twin?

OK. Said my piece. Hope you all still want me around.
 
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Thanks for everyone's thoughts.

Today was an unusually slow day at work for a change. It doesnt pay the bills, but it was nice not be running all day!

I'm going to eat dinner and then enjoy a cup of a coffee and a good book as I await Thursday night football ;)

Have a good evening everyone.
 
I tried to do a DVD, but wasn't happy with the one I picked out. Michelle D's Cardio Interval Burn so I only did about 10 min. I don't think I made it out of the warmup. I like the setup of the workout but its fast paced, a little dancy, and with quick changes just leave me confused and behind. I've done it before and liked it, so its kind of hit-and-miss with me.

Hubby stayed home from work today because he caught a GI virus, so I'm waiting to see if I got it too. Yip-ee! I cancelled Knit Night because if I did have it I didn't want to spread it around.

I've been watching the CrossFit games which I didn't know exsisted until I saw them mentioned here at CN. Watching the games and learning more about they way the train has made me think that maybe I should try more things unrelated to DVDs. Like Hubby and I throwing a ball around in the backyard or taking the dog for more walks. We are generally more active outside in the winter than the hot and humid summer anyway.

Faith, I bake my whole wheat bread as healthy as I can to steer clear of HFCS, sugar and and other processed ingredients that I don't want in my food or body. My dad had a heart surgery last year and he wants my bread over anything that they sell in the stores, so I've tried very hard to make it as healthy as possible for him.
 
Hi girls,
I deleted my post. It was actually a joke that was funny to me but clearly it didn't come across that way. Pleeeese don't feel compelled to apologize or justify your choices on anything to me. I realize my comments set me up for that but I do know we are each doing the best we can with the information available and any one person's choices are just as valid as another's and there are many paths toward fitness and healthy lifestyle. Hell, I have a new plan about every month, it just isn't cookie month for me right now. : )

Andrea, congrats on smoke free, that is one of the hardest things to do. Peng, that was nice that you missed knit night (do you ever call it stitch and bitch?) no, church group, maybe not. : ) That is what they call it at my mom's condo. Stacy, hugs.

Back to the regularly scheduled drama free check in.
 

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