dss62467
Cathlete
OK, ok, I know we have no preschoolers on the forum...but my daughter said something awful to me yesterday and I'm not sure what the correct reaction is.
We went to McDonald's for lunch. I got a grilled chicken salad, she got a cheeseburger Happy Meal with the apples instead of fries. She likes to play this game where she makes me close my eyes, then she "disappears". So I closed my eyes, she crawled under the table, and then I could open them. While she was under the table, I took a bite of her cheeseburger (knowing she wouldn't eat more than half of it anyway). When she asked what I was eating, I fessed up and she got really mad at me. And she said quietly, "I can't wait for you to die."
Obviously I realize she's too young to understand exactly what she just said and she was trying to get a reaction out of me. I got a little bit miffed that she said it, told her she had a mean and nasty little mouth, and that I didn't want to hear anything from her again until she could talk nicely.
I don't know...what do you ladies say when your little ones, who don't yet know better, say something like that? Once before she told me "I wish you would get dead." And I didn't make a deal out of it. But how is she supposed to learn what's mean to say if I don't say something?
We went to McDonald's for lunch. I got a grilled chicken salad, she got a cheeseburger Happy Meal with the apples instead of fries. She likes to play this game where she makes me close my eyes, then she "disappears". So I closed my eyes, she crawled under the table, and then I could open them. While she was under the table, I took a bite of her cheeseburger (knowing she wouldn't eat more than half of it anyway). When she asked what I was eating, I fessed up and she got really mad at me. And she said quietly, "I can't wait for you to die."
Obviously I realize she's too young to understand exactly what she just said and she was trying to get a reaction out of me. I got a little bit miffed that she said it, told her she had a mean and nasty little mouth, and that I didn't want to hear anything from her again until she could talk nicely.
I don't know...what do you ladies say when your little ones, who don't yet know better, say something like that? Once before she told me "I wish you would get dead." And I didn't make a deal out of it. But how is she supposed to learn what's mean to say if I don't say something?