Thanks so much you guys. I went to my meeting today and I think it was positive. I have never had to do this before, so I had no idea that in EEO situations, sometimes people ask for compensation for the treatment they've received!
I told her that my requests were simple - I want my confidential information kept that way, and I want everyone off my back until I could post and get a new job.
I'm hoping and praying that the results of this will be positive or at least neutralize the current situation so I can catch a break!
Thanks for all of your prayers and positive thoughts! Some of your comments were so funny and they all were uplifting.