Hello Everyone!
Things are going okay here - we think we've figured out why poor Sandy holds his poo/pee. First, when a cat hunkers down to pee in a cat box, he/she bends their back legs down - and he can't do that - it probably hurts. I figured this out yesterday when he peed standing up! I was just so happy he went that I was cheering.
I took him back into the vet's office this morning because yesterday I gave him a break from his collar and I thought he ripped some stitches out, but they were fine. They think the reason he's not using the box regularly without some stimulation is because the collar prevents him from smelling the litter. They put him in a box and took the collar off and he went crazy and poop and peed for them. He has a cough that sounds pretty bad right now, but the vet said he has no temp and his lungs are clear - she said to give him cough syrup! (I would never have thought they could have that!)
The last total I got from Donna, we had gotten in about $300 or so, and still have about a $600 balance on our bill. This is probably a total that's BEFORE everyone's checks arrived - some may still be on their way. I'm hoping it will come close to paying all of the bill but I'll keep you posted as things go. In the mean time, we're hoping more funds will roll in because Sandy MAY need additional surgery in the future to remove the pins from his legs and I imagine that will be a couple $100 at least.
I have an update on the donation issue.
I spoke with two attorneys and two CPAs locally and they all agreed that me taking donations personally is perfectly legal (which totally shocked me). They said that as long as I keep accurate records, separate accounts, and count the contributions as income on my taxes, I can take donations personally. I have to stress that they are NOT tax deductible. So, hubby and I have put out collection buckets. We took most of them into Morgantown (where WVU is) to get the most exposure - but the one local store that we put one out in had about $2 in it so far. Hopefully the Morgantown ones will do better. We've also opened an entirely separate checking and savings account to make the donation deposits to.
The news crews never returned my calls. I didn't pursue it yet because I hadn't spoken to the attorneys/CPAs yet. I plan to contact them again, but we're working on a website and we want to be able to give that website on the news story - that way if they won't give us the chance to ask for contributions/donations, we can give them our website and DH is trying to set it up so there is a donation button linked in the site that goes directly to paypal.
I also have paperwork from one of the CPA's on nonprofit organization status, but I've not had a chance to read it yet. That is something that I'm interested in getting, but isn't in effect at this time.
Thank you all for your concern and your generosity. I will keep you posted on Sandy and Mr. T, and when the site is up I will let you all know so you can check it out.
