nekko_cat
Cathlete
Someone I used to work with called it CRS Disease (can't remember sh*!). I prefer to use that term instead of menopause.
Ahhh, yes! This was the exact term I was thinking of when I read this thread! My "system" never worked very well, so I first started noticing some memory loss when I turned 40. Then came the mood swings, night sweats and other perimenopausal symptoms.
I had my last period when I turned 46, so I went early. I didn't have the heavy periods, but I know they are common. I liked using soy products (tofu, soy milk) but I know a lot of people shy away from them. They seemed to help me. Some things like red wine could really cause a flair up.