our flight home was delayed by an hour but otherwise Ok. Dh is so nervous before flying it's ridiculous. I'm edgy too but am OK once I get going. he had me up at 5 am. we had a 45 min drive to the airport so got there about 4.5 hours early. BIG time cushion but we didnt want to stay at the condo anymore anyway .
I always get a security pat down because of metal body parts, both directions this time. after we went thru the line, I was putting boots, belt back on. DH was behind me. I thought I saw a glimpse of something falling to the floor. I said clearly "you dropped something". he started tossing around the plastic bins saying he'd "lost his wallet". I said again, "you dropped something". I finally walked around the bins looked down below the bins on the floor, moved the stack, there was his wallet. I handed it to him. he was so nervous he didn't know he'd dropped it, and didn't hear me say he dropped something, twice loudly! I thought I saw something but was not sure what.
after 2 weeks of being talked over by his cousin and by DH, I was not a happy camper. his cousin is awful terrible that way. he monopolizes ALL conversations, with everybody, but is especially rude about talking over me when I start to talk. he is a nice guy, kind and means well, but it is extremely infuriating to be bulldozed over and over by a louder voice. he always hogs the conversation, and I think its why he has trouble connecting with people. he is very outgoing but cant build freindships. nobody likes to be ignored and talked over. as a female, it is always a problem. Ladies? it always happened at work. I dont imagine this! men ignore and talk over women all the time and if we get angry and demand to be heard, then we are "nasty controlling bitches" or similar. this is not a new thing for cousin but after 2 weeks of it in person, and then DH not listening to me either, I was volatile. I should not have to shout and stamp my feet to get a sentence finished. that is my big complaint. I have held it in for two weeks.
conversations happen when I talk, you answer, and then you talk, I answer, back and forth. an exchange occurs. Cousin talks over DH too, but is particularly rude with me. he talks really loud and goes on and on with stories and is a physically big guy besides. it is a terrible habit he has! I was almost to the point of screaming "shut the F*** up about 1000 times" but that wont fix anything.
I felt like a hero yesterday because happened to see a flash of something heading for the floor. when Dh didn't listen either ....it triggered 2 weeks of feeling dismissed and talked over. so vent over!
my email on my phone is still not working but will deal with it tomorrow.