nancy324
Cathlete
I've been struggling with this question for years. When we moved into our apartment in 2000, it was in great shape except for the kitchen, and I knew it was just a matter of time before we would have to renovate. The refrigerator was dying, the dishwasher was on it's last leg, the oven was probably purchased in 1962, the cabinets were chipped and blistering, and the island countertop had a big crack across the middle, to name just a few things. We finally gave in and bought a new refrigerator last year, because the old one finally died, but we purposely bought the least expensive model knowing that renovation would have to come eventually.
I've been procrastinating because I know it creates chaos. But lately I've been feeling that I may be ready for the interruption in our lives. I mentioned it to my DH and he said that with the market down, maybe we shouldn't do it after all. As if not doing it is an option like not taking an expensive vacation. I told him I do not see this as optional. Sure, we could buy a new appliance every time an old one breaks, but if we do that without replacing the floor, the cabinets and the island, etc., when we finally do those things, the appliances might not fit in properly. To me, it's a no-brainer that the entire kitchen should be done as a whole, at one time, so that everything works together.
Look, we don't cook much, and the kitchen is not a big part of our lives. It's small and you can't eat in it, and we spend very little time in it. I'm perfectly happy to use Ikea for everything, and don't intend to go high end. We've both been saving our nickels and dimes so we don't have to take out a home equity loan, and we have enough now, or at least most of it. We haven't started the estimate process yet, but we have an idea of what it will cost.
My DH is leaving it to me, and I say we have to go forward. Am I wrong that this is not an option? I've never renovated a kitchen before, so I need opinions from you homeowners.
Thanks!
I've been procrastinating because I know it creates chaos. But lately I've been feeling that I may be ready for the interruption in our lives. I mentioned it to my DH and he said that with the market down, maybe we shouldn't do it after all. As if not doing it is an option like not taking an expensive vacation. I told him I do not see this as optional. Sure, we could buy a new appliance every time an old one breaks, but if we do that without replacing the floor, the cabinets and the island, etc., when we finally do those things, the appliances might not fit in properly. To me, it's a no-brainer that the entire kitchen should be done as a whole, at one time, so that everything works together.
Look, we don't cook much, and the kitchen is not a big part of our lives. It's small and you can't eat in it, and we spend very little time in it. I'm perfectly happy to use Ikea for everything, and don't intend to go high end. We've both been saving our nickels and dimes so we don't have to take out a home equity loan, and we have enough now, or at least most of it. We haven't started the estimate process yet, but we have an idea of what it will cost.
My DH is leaving it to me, and I say we have to go forward. Am I wrong that this is not an option? I've never renovated a kitchen before, so I need opinions from you homeowners.
Thanks!
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If you are feeling that way, it is probably just time to jump in and see it through. We have a similar circumstance with our barn, which was 1/2 finished when we bought this place. This summer I finally said to DH, time to get it done. We don't really want to spend the money right now, but it's just time. So, I say, move forward, get it done, and you'll have one less thing to think about.
