Hi All,
Have a situation and hoping for some thoughts. 2nd wife for almost 4 yrs now and the ex was the one that initiated the divorce from DH. But some of DH's brothers wives have stayed friends with the ex. Inviting her for Thanksgiving, etc. I thought that was bad enough but now we are planning a group gift for their father and heard that she wants to go in on this. I am very angry and think this is totally inappropriate. DH thinks saying anything will just make the situation worse. I think that if we don't it will just continue and soon she will be at every family function and have exactly what she wanted - his money w/o him to tell her that the kids should have some discipline and his family. And how would you even sign this b-day card - son #1 & wife, son #2 & wife, son #3 & wife and ex-wife??? Am I making too much of this or would you be upset? Please help??? Thanks.
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Have a situation and hoping for some thoughts. 2nd wife for almost 4 yrs now and the ex was the one that initiated the divorce from DH. But some of DH's brothers wives have stayed friends with the ex. Inviting her for Thanksgiving, etc. I thought that was bad enough but now we are planning a group gift for their father and heard that she wants to go in on this. I am very angry and think this is totally inappropriate. DH thinks saying anything will just make the situation worse. I think that if we don't it will just continue and soon she will be at every family function and have exactly what she wanted - his money w/o him to tell her that the kids should have some discipline and his family. And how would you even sign this b-day card - son #1 & wife, son #2 & wife, son #3 & wife and ex-wife??? Am I making too much of this or would you be upset? Please help??? Thanks.
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