Thank God I am not alone, Gayle! It seems that our thoughts are quite unpopular these days. My parents did not build a new home until I was long gone from the house. They bought their first new car two years after that. We have several generations, including mine, who believe it is their American right to have everything new, nothing used and have it now.
Where I live, you would not believe how many children live in families where hand-me-down clothing is the norm along with jet skis, brand new Escalades, boats, 4 wheelers....
x( Somedays, it makes me want to scream!x(
My husband works with a 20 something, who is refusing to pay his mortgage payment (which he can afford right now because the balloon rate hasn't hit yet) on his subprime loan because he would rather that the bank take the house. I was so apalled by his decision I couldn't speak! I replied...explain to me how you think that you should not pay back a loan which was made to you for your home. This is your debt. You asked for it. You signed for it. It is a given that the house in not worth and will not sell for the amount mortgaged but it continues to be YOUR debt. He could care less and has been putting the payment money in his checking account since October. He seems to believe that the bank will not go after him and will let him foreclose on the house without any problems for him. Back in the day, you would be sued by the bank and foreclosure was ALWAYS the last alternative because as my wise Father said to me "they will make you wish you were dead".
Sad thing is...I fear this kid is right. I am cringing!