Boy, you guys are good and with all these suggestions, I expect to get nothing done today!
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The first e-mail I read today was Judy's PM and if my husband ahd seen me his eyes would have rolled! Thank you Judy and TyTbody. Being "fly" is a good thing, right?
Jes, I haven't. I had what I like to think of as an "Uh, duh moment". I have plenty of skills to chill out when I freak but it takes a little perspective to find them in the midst of panic striken over-thinking. There's a book called Women Who Think Too Much, which I find a total hoot. Maybe I should get it?

I can put it with my Feng Shei and home organization manuals or should it go with the books on being in the moment?
Clare, what a great idea. I never have time to read and trying it at bedtime is a joke. By bedtime, I have expended all my energy and drained my brain by chasing my tail all day. I did buy an Ocean Waves CD to mask the tinnitus. Do you think that could be what's evoking fantasies of beach chairs and fruity drinks with little colorful paper umbrellas? I'd rather be at Lake Michigan than cleaning the toilets. It's probably impossilbe to maintain such a flight of fancy with a toilet brush in hand. But standing and staring off into space while not cleaning, it's easy! And blinders! Yes! I must get some. I could do it on the way to the library to check our audio books. And you know the library is rather close to Trder Joe's. They have peeled garlic there. I love peeled garlic it goes so well with tht stuff I like, what's it called. Oh, I can't remember but I do know they carry it at Wild Oats....
Jeanette, my husband is like that too! He is so focused. When he cooks he cleans as he goes and never has to spend ages cleaning up dinner the way I do. My kitchen looks like a hurricane hit when I'm done and I use every pot and pan I own to create one simple, highly nutritious dinner. I put the whole dinner on the table at once and it's all hot. He cannot do that and dinner is usually at 10:00 PM! I have to do all the sides too. I multi-task in the kitchen very well! Yay! He cannot walk into the kitchen when I'm done or his head explodes. And I have to clean it up!
Charlotte and Candi, I could so do that if only Rich wasn't like Shelley! And he's very vocal about his displeasure! Interestingly he is disinclined to pick up after himself and I call him the anal-retentive slob. That's sexism too. Little wifey will do it she doesn't work. It's her job. He loves to tell me how neat he is at work, how well-organized is his desk. And I have to pretend I care and am impressed! He just came looking to know the tolet paper situation. It's in the garage and yes, we have some. I bought 36 rolls at Costco. I follow him into the garage. He hands me two rolls to take upstairs! I take them upstairs. This is his way of being considerate of me since someone steals the T.P. out of my bathroom daily and never discover it until it's too late becasue I put a frsh roll in daily. It's a vicious tissue circle. Charlotte, motivation is what gets you started; habit is what keeps you going. Girl, apply that to your house and you'll not only be buff, you'll be organized!
Donna, you have a Daily Planner! Okay, it has to pop up but there's an organized mind there! And now I have to go find out what the Meyers Briggs personality test is. I have used up most of my daily posting time in this thread. Of course, that was something I implemented yesterday, daily posting allotment. Twenty-four hours is the longest I can hold onto a new method. Make that 12.
Shelley, I would love to take a walk! But I just have too much to do!
I have tried lists, I have. But they are unsuitable for open-ended thinkers because they stare at you and make you feel guilty for the things that are not scratched off. I hate lists. Lists are mean. They hide and then you have to hunt for them and that I think, makes lists a waste of time. I should be cleaning the toilet, not hunting for my list, don't you think?
Hey, how's this for organization and multi-tasking? I am in Netscape typing this post and in Internet Explorer, trying to make sure I respond to everybody! Pretty great, huh? I must be some kind of a genius or savant. Who cares about housework when youare a genius-savant. Note that's GENIUS, not idiot, okay?
You guys are the best!
Donna, it's very telling that you have a Day Planner, even if it has to be popped up!
Bobbi
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