>I just wonder how many parents will continue to allow their
>children to be his "friend". I bet more than we would like to
>think which is even more sad than the verdict.
I hear ya! You know, I honestly never really believed he was guilty. Guilty of being gullible, yes, stupid even, but I never felt confident, at least from my limited vantage point, that he was guilty of child molestation. He may be, don't get me wrong. I think the whole story was so twisted, we'll never hear all of it --from either side. And it may be another one of those O.J. things, but I was never really convinced.
However, guilty verdict or not, whether I believe he was guilty or not, I would never, EVER have allowed my child to be alone with him (or anyone else accused of this crime). In fact, I would never have allowed my child to be alone with anyone except his daddy or me under those circumstances. I certainly would never have allowed him to spend the night in a grown man's bed, alone, after especially not after the initial allegation by that other family. Just one-tenth of the behavior that the mother admits to knowing and witnessing were enough to make any reasonable and rational person suspicious. I truly believe that mother should be investigated for child abuse and/or child endangerment herself! If it were me, what she has already admitted to amounts to putting the child in danger.
Sadly, that boy, whether he was molested or not, has been scarred for life. Who will he ever be able to trust? Who will ever be able to trust him? The whole situation is just heartbreaking.
Shari