Laurie, I feel for ya, GF! Your post really makes me smile.
We have two active, athletic sons, now 18 and almost 21, so I'm an ollllllllllld hand at feeding them and their TRULY bottomless pals. :7 We've hosted many a team party or impromptu guys' sleepover. I had good advice from "guy moms" along the way, and figured out a system that kept them happy and also usually kept them away from the food in our house that WASN'T intended for them. Here's how we managed (you were closer to the truth than you might have known!):
**Costco, Costco, Costco...and did I mention Costco? ;-) This kept the budget a bit more manageable.
**A second fridge in the laundry room that was "officially" theirs, and always stocked with water and drinks.
**A cabinet in the laundry room that was "officially" theirs (they called it the "snack pantry") which I kept stocked with "their" snacks -- popcorn, pretzels, anything Costco sold in bulk...
**When we did team parties and guys' get-togethers, I doubled the amount of burgers, dogs, pizza, etc. that I would have purchased for the same number of girls. In my sons' group of pals, also, there were always (at every age) one or two friends who were legendarily giant eaters. So if I knew that, say, Spencer was coming over, I bought even more food. (The absolutely adorable Spencer of whom I speak once ate 29 slices of pizza when the guys went to an all-you-can-eat pizza buffet. ;-) Thank goodness it wasn't at my house!) We rarely had a crumb leftover!
Enjoy your DDs' boyfriends and boy friends -- I adored having teen-age boys around (still do) and find them to be fantastic and fascinating creatures!!!!!
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