Miscarried on Sunday

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Golfingirl

Cathlete
Hi everyone,

I haven't posted here too often, but I've enjoyed reading your posts and really benefitted from all the great info and knowledge here during the eight weeks my pregnancy lasted. Unfortunately, I lost my baby on Sunday, and while I'm doing pretty well physically, I am just reeling emotionally trying to come to grips with what happened. This was my first pregnancy and while I know that miscarriage is very common, somehow I never imagined it would happen to me!

Anyway I hope to be rejoining you all here in a few months. Although I am terrified of having this happen again, my husband and I do plan to try again when the doctor gives us the OK. Meanwhile, I hope you all have happy and healthy pregnancies!
 
I am so sorry!! I miscarried a few years ago when I was 15 weeks along. It was very tough on me! I do understand what you are going through. The hardest thing for me was to explain to my other 3 kids what happened. They were very excited to have another brother/sister. I am now 6 weeks pregnant again with #4 and I do have a bit of fear in the back of my head...... I know that all things happen for a reason though. I pray for emotional healing for you and that your next pregnancy will be a blessed one:) Keep us updated!! Blessings, Jennifer H
 
I am so sorry that this happened to you. A friend of mine went through this and she had a very tough time. She is now expecting again in February and everything has been perfect for her this go around. I am wishing the same for you. God bless.
Lisa
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sending you hugs: <<hugs>>. You & your family will be in my prayers.

Melanie
Baby boy due 1/25/04

" Take care of your body like it will last a lifetime. Take care of your soul like it will last for eternity"
 
I am sad for you as well and you are in my prayers. A close friend of mine lost her first baby at 12 weeks and they were able to give her some hormone supplement (progesterone I think) and she is currently successfully carrying her second baby due in Feb.

Take very good care of yourself.
Maggie
 
A miscarriage is truly a very, very hard thing to go through.I have experienced four miscariages, my first at 16 weeks - no one can ever really knows what it feels like unles you have experienced it.

It can be really devastating - many people just assume when they find out they are pregnant that you will go to the end to have a baby. You become so excited in the anticipation of it all - just to have it all pulled out from underneath you.

Just remember - it was nothing you did wrong - we don't have control over this - but I must say when you become pregnant again you will feel differently than when you got pregnant with this one. At least I did - I felt leery of getting too close to it or wrapped up into it for fear I would miscarry again. I feel that is very normal to feel this way.

I will pray for you - to conceive and to have a healthy pregnancy and baby.

Just to let you know, I went on to have a baby after that pregnancy, but did miscarry two times after that - but went on to have three more babies after that. They found out that I was low on progesterone which maintains the pregnancy through 12 weeks or so. I had to take progesterone during the last three pregancies.

I, also, had six children before my first miscarriage - so there is great hope for you. Keep us posted on how you are doing and how you are feeling emotionally also. For we care!

God Bless,

Cheryl
 
I'm very sorry for your loss. I know when the time is right, you'll have a wonderful pregnancy, and you'll be a great mom!
Please take care--
Charlene
 
I am so sorry to hear of your miscarriage. You will be in my thoughts and prayers for a healthy & successful pregnancy next time around and I hope it's SOON! Keep us posted.
Your-Friend-In-Fitness, DebbieH http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmilies.de/wavey.gif[/img] If You Get The Choice To Sit It Out Or Dance...I Hope You DANCE!!!
 
Martha:

I am sorry to read this. I hope you will look after yourself and make sure your partner looks after you to ensure a complete physical and emotional recovery.

Life sends some tough knocks sometimes......

All the best,

Clare
 
Hello,

Just want to send you a big "cyberhug." I too know what it feels like. I miscarried at 14 weeks. I later became pregnant and delivered a healthy little boy.

I am so glad that you turned to us here on the forum for support. I am very proud to be associated with such a caring group of women.

Take care of yourself! My prayers are with you.

Sheila

Sheila S. Watkins,MLSci.
Founder and National Program Director (and CATHE forum moderator)
Healthy Moms(R) Fitness
www.healthymomsfitness.com
 
Golfingirl, I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Carol
 
Hi Golfingirl! I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you very warm cyber hugs to help comfort you. Take good care!
 
I am so sorry for your loss! I can't imagine what you are going through... I miscarried last October and I remember the the pain (and anger) I felt, so I would imagine you are experiencing that too. Take your time grieving... there is not greater loss than that of a child.

You are in my prayers! Take care!

Autumn
 
I'm very sorry to hear of your miscarriage. I went through the same thing on 3rd October. I found it hard to think of anything but "why had it happened?" I discussed the whole thing with my very caring doctor who was of great comfort to me. My doctor gave me some very good advice too, he told me to leave it for a few months before trying again to give my uterus time to recover - I was keen to get straight in there and try again but I'll wait now until a couple of months into the New Year now.

Yes, it's a good idea to wait for your doctor to advise when to try again.

Keep strong.
 
I just want to let you know how sorry I am to hear of your loss. I also miscarried my second child and went on to have 2 more healthy girls.
Take care, I wish you the very best.
hugs~
Bec
 
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