Waterlily,
It looks like you have a lot of company! I too, am a migraine sufferer. I've gotten them since birth. The doctors think it was due to a medical emergency my mom experienced while pregnant with me. My migraines don't seem tied in to my diet, (which is pretty clean and no alcohol), and come every 4 to 6 weeks regardless of what I do.
My migraines are severe and I've tried all the drugs I've seen mentioned here, with the exception of the one (can't remember the name now) someone said they took after 2 maxalt. I've done shots, pills, homeopathic, etc... I've had scans and EEG's, but have never found anything to stop it, or lessen the pain. Currently I take the nasel spray Stadol, but only at night and it only occasionally helps me sleep. And it is STRONG! To date it is the only thing that ever allows me to sleep.....otherwise I am up & in pain the entire 72 hours that it lasts. During the day when I have a headache, I just lay in the dark , moving around, lights, or anything makes it worse.
I'm lucky in that mine come fairly infrequently, but they flatten me when they do come, so I'd love it if anyone has suggestions too.
Has anyone tried Botox or the epilepsy drug Topamax?? I went to my dr. and asked about Topamax and she wrote me a prescription, but then I found out it's not on my insurance providers approved list, and I can't afford it.
Anyway, Sorry that I haven't been of any help to you, but you definetly are NOT alone!!!
I hope you can get some help.